Building A Relationship

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Building a relationship with a man is a very tough thing to do, and it is tougher if you have just met the man who you like for a few days or so. Attention is the key word on making men interested in you. However, if you get overboard on getting the attention that you want, you can scare him off, or worse, even turning him off. To help you out to keep him forever, here are some of my ways how I keep my man interested on me.

 

My first rule how I keep my man is the most obvious. If the man is there beside you, then there is a seventy five percent chance that he is interested on you. Try to remember the things that you have done that made him smile on the first day that you have met. The things that made him smile back then are your primary means on keep him in love with you.

 

As the old saying goes, clothes make the man. This also applies in women. Knowing what colors and types of dress that attracts him the most is one way how I keep my man has his eyes on me only. You could make use some simple questions with underlying intentions to get some information on what will keep him turn his head on you. You could also try to dress the opposite way that you always do. For instance, if you are used to put on somewhat revealing dresses, try to wear simple and modest clothes. This will grab his attention even more.

 

Then, show him the other side of your personality. I keep my man by leaving him some room for thrills and surprises on my disposition. If you are quite an outgoing woman, try something else that will make him notice that you are willing to change everything for him. Be more feminine and ladylike. Revealing your softer feminine side can really keep him on liking you, as most men like women who are really “women” in thoughts, words and actions.

You also have to be unpredictable. Have him chase you, but do not get overboard. Give him some subtle hints that you like him too. However, do not be too outright, as he will be most likely to lose interest on you upon finding out that you are just pursuing each other. Men have a predator instinct, so you must act to be his prey. Keep him surprised with the things that he does not know about you that will surely make him like you. That’s one how I keep my man preying on me still.

 

Be unique. I do my best to be special at all things to keep my man on loving me. Men generally want to feel that they are with a special person. Be special on your own way to keep him in love with you. Do not be just like the other women. However, being special does not mean you have to pretend to be one. Just be yourself. Pretending will just make things go bad. If he likes the true you, then it’s good. If he doesn’t, unfortunately, he’s not the man for you.

 

Lastly, try to be more personal and intimate, but do not be too intrusive. I keep my man interested on me by opening up something new about myself each day. If he is too shy to open up, make the first move to keep him on the doing the second move. After all, if none of you makes a move, then nothing will happen. You have to remember that opening up leads to intimacy, which then will lead into love.