nowwhatnow Posted January 27, 2011 Posted January 27, 2011 dear the love of my life, its been almost 5 months since you broke up with me. when are you going to come back to me? - i have tried everything, still missing you dearly
Xewkija Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 (edited) It's only been 2 weeks for me and this is the second day of NC and it's extremely tough. I can't imagine what I will be in 5 months I believe I will be in the stage your in and still want her back. Hopefully she will miss me and want me back. March would have been our 5 year anniversary Hang in their Edited January 28, 2011 by Xewkija
J0N Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Guys trust me... With time and NC these feelings will pass. It's not easy. Now is the time to focus on YOU!
Author nowwhatnow Posted January 28, 2011 Author Posted January 28, 2011 its been 5 months of up and down rollercoaster emotions... but its all come down to me still wanting him
Fern Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 its been 5 months of up and down rollercoaster emotions... but its all come down to me still wanting him Are you still in contact with him? Are you keeping tabs? Have you tried accepting that he's gone and trying to move on? Tell us what you're thinking and feeling. Tell us your story. Let it out.
Author nowwhatnow Posted January 28, 2011 Author Posted January 28, 2011 i have i really have. i even moved half way across the world to be in a better place - both physically and mentally. we were together for almost 2 years and he dropped this completely out of nowhere. i tried to move forward, move on, but nothing makes me happy like being with him did. i feel like everything i am doing should be moving me forward but i still feel mentally like i am in a place of constant waiting. like he will wake up one day and realize his mistake - that life is not more fun without me. he just has to. i have been NC for about 3 months actually, but he still asks about me from time to time to common friends.
Bluebelle38 Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Hey OP Your letter said everything i want to say to my ex. Day 11 No Contact for me after he said he didnt feel it and it was going nowhere. We had great times. We laughed so much. I cant imagine him having the banter we had with just some other girl. BUT, I have decided that if this person can't see the jewel he had in me and want to stick by me, then there is NOTHING I can do to change that. You live and you learn. I've learnt this is now out of my control. Will he miss me, of course. Enough to contact me, I doubt it. My life and yours are not over. A chapter is and every day you spend pining is a wasted day of giving your heart and emotions to someone that did not see a future with the two of you. Is my ex pininng over what he loss. No chance, or he would be on the phone begging to see me. Yes, it's hard and yes you think you will never love again, but you will. If he does come back to you, then great but you cant spend your life waiting. This is time you will never get back. Keep your chin up.
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