Insecurities from past or is this something else?

[chuckunseen]

Here is some back story. I am currently living with my gf and her parents. I am just starting school again and I work a part time job. My gf is in her senior year of high school and is working hard to get straight A's while helping her parents with whatever they need help with. She usually has a lot of stress and I do whatever I can to help her relax. She doesn't go out often and she would seldom talk to her friends on fb and gmail.

 

Present:

Lately though she has been staying up late at night, until about 3 am, on the phone with someone. She also talks on gmail a lot with her friends and video chats with them. I'm never allowed to see who she is talking to, which is odd to me because before she was fine with telling me who she would talk to and now when she is video chatting with someone she pretty much pushes me out of her room and doesn't really respond to me with her typical answers, like usually when I say I love you she says it back but if she is on video with someone she talks loud and pushes me out the door saying okay I'll talk to you in a bit or something close to that.

 

It just seems really odd to me and also lately I have been having dreams and nightmares of just suffering, pain, loneliness, and despair. I only have those types of dreams consistently before was when she cheated on me and was hiding it. I have talked to her about my feelings about what has been going on and she said that she just wants time to herself since she never goes out, she never really talks to people and she has me here constantly over her. To be honest I understand that and I was okay with giving her space, but the dreams and nightmares haven't stopped and she is still staying up till late in the morning on the phone with someone.

 

Am I just being to paranoid and my feelings from the last time she cheated on me are resurfacing and causing me to think stuff when nothing is going on?

[PegNosePete]

She is quite blatantly cheating on you dude. Sorry. You need to ditch her.

[Space Ritual]

Get out of that house....Your relationship is over. She is having at the least an emotional affair if not a physical one.

 

She cheated on you before? "Fool me once....you know the rest...Dump her before she hurts you more.

[Leviia]

What Space Ritual said ..... usually if your gut is screaming at you listen to it.