chelle21689 Posted January 27, 2011 Posted January 27, 2011 Is it possible to get back with an ex if you had a long history together, happy relationship, and not break up nastily whether it's months or years? What do you think of my situation? I met my ex when I was 12, we became good friends at 14, then we dated at 16 for 5.5 years but 2.5 years long distance when he moved and joined the Army. Our relationship has so many great memories, I don't understand what happened. Maybe the distance finally caught up to him...I was suppose to move after he deployed and I graduate college next Fall! He was crying really hard one day and told me his feelings have changed for me. It feels different, he doesn't anticipate my visits or calls and he feels we grew apart...or at least HE GREW apart. He said that he doesn't know why this happened... We both still talk openly and the sadness is there. Only been 4 days...but I'm about to do "No Contact" until I feel better.
BambooSticks Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Hey there, I don't have answers for you... except to say that I feel your pain, I'm going through it too. My ex told me last week his feelings have changed... I don't know if I could even accept him back... I know you ended your relationship nicely... I didn't... I hurled up a heap of "how could you do this"... so I'm going to give myself time out from him... He wants it... and take each day as it comes... I keep thinking he could come back in the future, but I also doubt it... and I don't know want to live on false hopes.
SimonSerenade Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Any relationship can be saved providing there was no violence involved
dng Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Any relationship can be saved providing there was no violence involved I expect you mean not only physical violence, but emotional violence as well?
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