mecoolhaha Posted January 27, 2011 Posted January 27, 2011 Okay so my this girl I'm talking to told me that if she found out I was hooking up with another girl she wouldn't ever talk to me again. I was going to ask her to be my GF today but when I asked her to hang out she said "i have to write an essay at a friends house :/" is a friend another guy? she also isn't texting back quick at all and would she hook up with other guys while were talking if she told me that? I also have kissed her many times cuddling holding hands, so i guess were considered bf gf right? Should I just text her tomorrow and ask if she wants to hang out?
oaks Posted January 27, 2011 Posted January 27, 2011 so i guess were considered bf gf right? Best not to assume this! But it sounds like she's taking an interest in you not seeing other girls, so (if you aren't seeing other girls) why don't you ask her?
Emilia Posted January 27, 2011 Posted January 27, 2011 it sounds like she is as insecure about the situation as you are. she is probably busy with school work or maybe she doesn't like being asked out last minute. ask her tomorrow as well, if she says no, get her to suggest a day when she is available. if you put the ball in her court you can gauge much easier how interested she is. also, it helps a lot if she can plan ahead a little bit in advance rather than last minute. if she sees that you are planning ahead to be with her she will be more assured of your interest level. these things work both ways basically talk to her the next time you 'hang out'
zengirl Posted January 27, 2011 Posted January 27, 2011 Okay so my this girl I'm talking to told me that if she found out I was hooking up with another girl she wouldn't ever talk to me again. I was going to ask her to be my GF today but when I asked her to hang out she said "i have to write an essay at a friends house :/" is a friend another guy? she also isn't texting back quick at all and would she hook up with other guys while were talking if she told me that? I also have kissed her many times cuddling holding hands, so i guess were considered bf gf right? Should I just text her tomorrow and ask if she wants to hang out? If you want her to be your GF, you have to ask her. I don't think she's hooking up with other guys (though I don't know her) and of course you should be able to expect reciprocal exclusivity, if she doesn't want you seeing other gals. Why don't you think she's writing an essay? Maybe she's busy. Also, maybe try asking her out a bit further in advance next time.
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