justme111 Posted January 26, 2011 Posted January 26, 2011 so im a 20 year old girl and need some advice, I have met this man online, first it was suppose to be something very casual and now after talking and getting to know him more i have started to really like him, and he says he feels the same way, he didnt expect it either apparently. I cannot stop thinking about him, and he says he misses me when we dont talk for even a couple hours hes not like other guys hes more sensitive but hes alot older, and he also said he doesnt really want to do anything anymore just yet he wants us to get to know eachother and talk first he seems like a really great guy but hes 45 should keep with him or hes perfect apart from age
SincereOnlineGuy Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 That's the age old question (no pun intended). I'll tell you one thing: give him LOTS of points if and when you eventually get to verify that exact age. If he's really 53... then walk away, not because of the age, but because he lied. (But IF he's 45 like he says, then give him the credit you might have taken away otherwise) Beyond that, I would keep talking online for the most part, for some time to come... and keep measuring how much you fancy him. Eventually let your heart decide.
Pfiend101 Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 25 years difference. He wants you for one thing. IMO to tap that ass. I doubt he has any other intentions. Just being honest. If thats what you want..... go for it.
Ms. Joolie Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 Oh, honey, don't take this one seriously at all. Just have fun with it. Get to know him but don't go falling in love with him. JUST HAVE FUN... unless he shows you a ring. heh
Lovelybird Posted January 28, 2011 Posted January 28, 2011 (edited) My guts don't trust him according to what you type here. For a person who did many years online dating, I know the power of imagination! some weird old guy knows how to hook a young person who needs affection and attention, just hope he isn't, but most likely he is. Please don't meet him alone, when you meet him, bring some your friends, if you cannot pick up his weirdness, others will. By the way, in a community is the best way to know a person's character. If you want to have fun, have it safely. also the length of communication online can hook you emotionally, but in reality it is not what you imagined and not what he talked. If you can, try to google him, and bring him into light (means let him be known by others who care about you) Edited January 28, 2011 by Lovelybird
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