timchambo Posted January 26, 2011 Posted January 26, 2011 (edited) well this turned into a novel... All signs point to my ex regretting her decision and with her being way to stubborn and prideful she dug in way too deep. From friends to parents to my family members who have all seen/talked to her, this is what I gather. We were together over 7 years. She seems to have gone seeking greener pastures. She called a couple times early last week and I just never picked up or returned any texts. They were along the lines of "missing my best friend, etc". This was a week ago today. It seems since I didn't contact back she has been pursuing new guy harder. Last thing I wanted to do was comfort her while she goes and pursues the new guy. In time one of two things will occur. She will convince herself that she made the right choice, or she will finally swallow her pride and admit to making a mistake. One of her parents has been trying to contact me a few times over the last couple weeks regarding some items I need to return. They will be once they are in my possession. This parent has been leaving some nasty voice mails as if I wrong their daughter. I finally spoke with said parent today and we talked for the better part of an hour. The conversation basically indicated my ex may be acting happy out with her friends, but she stays up all hours of the night. Been looking at pictures of us from throughout the years. Apparently my ex was upset that I didn't kick down her parents door and drag her back into my life. She took that as an indication of some lack of love for her. I guess my re-proposal (she gave ring back), unpacking her bags (they were packed ready for her to leave) and putting her stuff back away, all night freaky sex all the night before she left didn't say enough. When she left she said not to beg her to stay because she wouldn't (even though I did a little). At some point I have to not look like a bitch and man up and let her walk right? She has even been asking her parents if she will ever find someone who will love her like I did. All signs point to her regretting what she did, but pride got in the way. She would never allow herself to say "well I ****ed that up". Even if she realized it the next day. Seriously on behalf of the gender that uses logic when making decisions, **** women and their emotions. Heres to my new relationship with my right hand. Right now I hate her almost as much as I love her. She's moving onto a new guy, though I picture him more as a rebound. Her reasonings for leaving have been all over the place though initially to pursue her career, then she "needed" to be single then we needed to find ourselves. Once I called her out on talking to this new guy she countered with "I'm not in love with you anymore". Up until that point she wanted me to wait on the back burner, which I told her I wouldn't do. Said parent says the things my ex is saying is because shes hurt and mad. I think mad that she got caught, and probably embarrassed. She was even in tears over the phone with a family member while discussing us. My family member said she seemed to have some regret and some satisfaction about what was going on. I guess I shouldn't over analyze any of this really. My ex's parent could be covering for her. It was just interesting getting a view of what shes going through inside her home. Edited January 26, 2011 by timchambo
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