mfs976 Posted January 26, 2011 Posted January 26, 2011 Hey everyone! O.K. so I've been doing real good lately and its almost been a full month of NC between me and ex. I have two mutual friends who are engaged to be married of which me and the ex used to hang out with a lot as couples. Sometimes we would go to their house and play corny card games and drinking games and just laugh our asses off and have a great time together... Well sat night I'm at work and I check my facebook and see that the three of them (except the ex because I had her block me)are having a blast and doing the things we all used to do together. I got really really pissed off for some reason. I felt irrationally betrayed by all of them. I don't like that she still hangs out with our mutual friends because they were my friends long before she came into the picture. I told her it bothered me and she still continues to see them because she has become close to them now as well..almost closer than me. My friends don't seem to understand why I'm upset and I don't want to make them choose sides or put them in the middle because it's not fair but I feel as though I have to walk away from them completely and focus my energy on other friends I have and new friends that I don't have memories of her with? Also they went bowling earlier in the day and they meet up with 'some guy' that my ex knew from the military..not sure if he's just a friend or a potential love interest to her but isn't it REALLY disrespectful that she would introduce our friends to a new guy already? Or am I just over-reacting? either way it's got me really pissed off as you can all tell... Are these really my friends if they continue to hang out with her? Am I over-reacting about this whole thing? Should I try to keep them around or totally dissociate myself from them completely? I need to make a decision fast because they're suppose to be attending my birthday celebration this weekend and I'm suppose to meet up with my buddy to get fitted for our tux's for the wedding next Wednesday. The wedding is in July and both me and the ex are in it and I just rather know what I plan to do now so I don't have to change my mind later and have him struggle to find another groomsman... Any help appreciated! Cheers..
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