Mattch Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3]I met this girl on a site though it was a non dating site. She mostly caught my attention because of her pics. We started talking and became friends. Over time I started liking her and I could tell she liked me too. We talked for several months and she talked about dating me but she lives across the country so I wanted fun but also wanted to take things slow. Then I find out after talking to her almost everyday for at least 2 months that she is a fake, the pictures aren’t hers. I don’t find out from her this other person on the site has ‘proof’ through the real girls facebook, myspace and youtube account. Needless to say I’m pretty ticked, I know we weren't dating but I was interested in falling for this girl. The whole time I thought I was talking to this beautiful girl. I don’t like to rate women but I’d have to say she was like a 10, maybe 11. I thought it was too good to be true. The girl showed me her pics and she’s more like a 7 or 8. Now I’m wondering what else she’s lied about or wondering if I should trust or even bother with this girl. Plus I told her I liked her and that she liked me. We’d talked, flirted, and even cyber if you will. She said she was sorry, that she was concerned about privacy etc but Idk if I believe her. She also said she’d like to be friends but Idk if I want that. What do you think?[/sIZE][/FONT]
stillafool Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Well it sounds like you are only into her "looks". I can understand you being upset because she lied but you only chose her because of her pics. After you talked to her you liked her alot and wanted to date her until you found out she is not a 10/11 but a 7/8. What is your number???
depplover_1980 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Well she sold you goods based on a lie. Like agreeing to buy a shiny new car and getting there to find it 3 years old with a few scratches on the paintwork. Very dishonest. But if you like the girls personality, you could remain friends and see if she redeems herself, perhaps meet her in the flesh as she could be very attractive face to face? But honestly I get the feeling her looks were the main motivation for you anyway!
Author Mattch Posted January 25, 2011 Author Posted January 25, 2011 Yeah dishonesty is not a way to start off any kind of relationship romantic or friendship. I''m not going to lie was mostly into her looks. Her personality is okay she seems shy and sweet but we are quite opposites. I'm not one to toot the ol' horn but I'd have to say I'm a 10! Okay at least an 8.5/9, I've never had any complaints. Going to visit her is an idea I haven't thought of though like I said she lives far away. I have plenty of other hot chicks that are closer to me with possibly less drama
depplover_1980 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Yeah dishonesty is not a way to start off any kind of relationship romantic or friendship. I''m not going to lie was mostly into her looks. Her personality is okay she seems shy and sweet but we are quite opposites. I'm not one to toot the ol' horn but I'd have to say I'm a 10! Okay at least an 8.5/9, I've never had any complaints. Going to visit her is an idea I haven't thought of though like I said she lives far away. I have plenty of other hot chicks that are closer to me with possibly less drama What a surprise.
Author Mattch Posted January 26, 2011 Author Posted January 26, 2011 Oh please, physical attraction is important for everyone. It may not be the most important for many people, but it is still important. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. Thank you very much! Also idk, I'm trying not to sound like a jerk here but if you're an 8 and you're going to use someone eles's photos she could have at least used another girl who's an 8. Who does that anyways? It's not like she's unattractive at all, in fact she's quite cute Poor thing, I told a couple ppl on the site about her and she's been banned. She's still trying to contact me though. Sigh looks like it's time to go back to meeting women in the real world!
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