poorguy Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Quickl, broke up in June. She got a new guy that week. They pretty much moved in together and now live together, but everything isn't perfect I hear. We stopped talking in August until October. We talked for maybe a month, she would find excuses to text or email, of course when he wasn't around. So I went NC totally a today happens to be day 60!!! So question is this morning I get an email about something regarding a car repair I helped her with about a year ago wanting to know if I remembered what was done- I know for a fact her father has the paperwork on the repair at the dealer!!! Is this an excuse to contact?? Should I respond? I do still think about her but it doesn't hurt like it did and that's because I have been in total NC. So respond or not??? Why the freakin email after all this time, I mean we broke up 7 months ago!!! Thank you
ideservebetter Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 I am no expert in this since I was dumped two months ago but I would suggest not to respond.
GreenPolicy Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 I would not respond. If she wants you back, she needs to quit playing games and come out and say what she wants. If she doesn't want you back, you're under no obligation to respond with the info she wants.
Author poorguy Posted January 25, 2011 Author Posted January 25, 2011 I would not respond. If she wants you back, she needs to quit playing games and come out and say what she wants. If she doesn't want you back, you're under no obligation to respond with the info she wants. What's up man? I agree, it's not like she can't find out on her own-she doesn't need me to answer that you know. She could look at the paperwork or even call the dealer. How am I supposed to remember what was done anyways, even though I do remember lol. Just an excuse to contact me I suppose. Anyone else, to respond or not to respond?
stillafool Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Absolutely, mums the word. Don't respond and delete. Maybe she forgot her dad has the paperwork but she will figure it out.
Author poorguy Posted January 25, 2011 Author Posted January 25, 2011 Absolutely, mums the word. Don't respond and delete. Maybe she forgot her dad has the paperwork but she will figure it out.[/quote She didn't forget a thing, I'm sure of that. She knows good and well her father keeps things like that. It's some excuse for whatever reason LS is the best..I needed some advice real quickly and look what I got...So everyone agrees-let it go??
Movingthrough Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 If its for sure that she can get that info then its a game. My buddy had this happen to him a a few days ago. Writes a girl an email explaining the situation and how he is done or needs to know whats up, she doesnt respond. Then comes back asking about something totally off the way, just another excuse to get in. Honestly i wouldnt do it but i know its easier said then done. Like my ex, she would talk to me when the new guy wasnt around. I remember hitting a point thinking wow so this is what it has come to? You dont want to be that guy man, the second guy that she plays with when she needs attention.
Author poorguy Posted January 25, 2011 Author Posted January 25, 2011 If its for sure that she can get that info then its a game. My buddy had this happen to him a a few days ago. Writes a girl an email explaining the situation and how he is done or needs to know whats up, she doesnt respond. Then comes back asking about something totally off the way, just another excuse to get in. Honestly i wouldnt do it but i know its easier said then done. Like my ex, she would talk to me when the new guy wasnt around. I remember hitting a point thinking wow so this is what it has come to? You dont want to be that guy man, the second guy that she plays with when she needs attention. She can get the info. If you wanted to know about something that a dealer fixed on your car everyone knows you can just call or look at the reciept they give you.. Yea that's what I gat sucked into a few months back. She was sending me emails an texts about what went wrong with us for like a month and I was responding. I realized though it was only when she was at work never at night when she was more than likely with her boyfriend...The last one was on Thanksgiving she wrote "I'm still in love with you".....So sweet right???? Yeah ok if she was still in love with me she would be with me or make attempts to be not living with her BF....Well that was the last time I responded to her so that's 60 NC!!!!! Wonder if she was counting too lol
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