Silver Arrow Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 There's a girl who i like. She's stunning beyond words, even a blind man would agree. She flirts with me all time and is more than comfortable with me touching her anywhere. I seriously thought that she liked me and I told her i liked her and she said that we're just friends which i'm ok with, but then two days later she starts grinding on me which leaves me confused. (Although tbh we were both drunk and in a club when i told her so maybe that's why she said no). So what's her problem? I've texted her to ask when she's coming back to school and she never replied Anyway she came back to school and i saw her from my window and my heart just sank. She looked so beautiful and i feel as if i can never have her. I always talk to her and maintain intense eye contact. Isn't that what girls want? Someone that actually cares about them? That's all i ever hear them complaining about how men don't listen to them. Also during christmas i was texting her and she took maybe 30mins to reply Is she just playing me? I told her i liked her when drunk and she said we're just friends. What should i say to her next time i see her? It will probably be on a night out so we're gonna be drunk probably and it will be my first time seeing her in about 6 weeks. I should mention that we have exams maybe that's why she hasn't been in contact. Either way i can't stop thinking about her. We're both in university, she's 18 and i'm 19. Am i maybe just reading a little too much into this? HELP!!! I'm feeling really depressed over this; partly because i was depressed before i even met her and also because i feel that she doesn't like me.
Yamaha Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Ur no challenge. She knows she has you. Your like her favorite puppy who sits and waits all day for her to arrive home. Take her off the pedestal. Date other women.
GivenUp0083 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Ur no challenge. She knows she has you. Your like her favorite puppy who sits and waits all day for her to arrive home. Take her off the pedestal. Date other women. Couldn't agree more. A woman like her sounds like all she has is looks going for her right now, and she knows it won't last her whole life so she's having fun while she's got it. When she flirts with you and you buy into it, you give her the female equivalent of an egotistical hard on.
Truly Lost Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 I don't think you are doing anything wrong. She just isn't into you like you want her to be. You happen to really like her and the feeling isn't mutual. Plain and simple. My guess is if you try to play games with her you won't get the desired results you are looking for. Girls are pretty wishy washy when it comes to saying things they don't mean, but if she said directly that you two are "just friends". I wouldn't doubt that is exactly how she feels about you. The best thing you can do for yourself is to give up on this one and try dating other ladies. If she stays within your social circle and witnesses you dating other women, then maybe she will think that she let a good thing go and get jealous. But that in no way means that you should set out to break another girls heart by attempting to make this girl jealous. Just move on with your life and give love a chance with someone else. You never know what will happen. You might end up meeting a really awesome girl and forget about this current girl all together.
somedude81 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Eh, next time you go out and you're both drunk, make a move. Don't tell her you like her, go for a drunken makeout. You will have your answer.
lululucy Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Eh, next time you go out and you're both drunk, make a move. Don't tell her you like her, go for a drunken makeout. You will have your answer. I second that. If she gets angry or huffy or doesn't like it in general, she ain't into you. She's probably just enjoying university life and the male attention you (and probably others) are providing her.
BOKI5 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 As a woman, I can say she's just ****ing with you. I don't think she is doing this to be evil but you're a probably just an ego boost to her. I think you should forget about her and open your horizons to dating or meeting other girls. I know it hurts but don't make someone a priority when you are an option.
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