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... I was reading her profile, she probably lives like 15 mins away, and in her profile it says, "I am currently in college, and when I graduate, I plan on leaving the state, so if you are a permanent state resident here, then I'm not the one for you"

 

Doesn't this pretty much negate anyone that lives near her? LOL What are her chances that a guy who is living near her, going to be leaving the state? Why not just hook up, date, and get married in the area they actually met?

 

Woudln't it make more sense to not even date, until you LEAVE said state?

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Maybe she's hoping to meet another college student who might be willing to move with her when they graduate? Or maybe some guys wouldn't mind moving to a different state if they'd been dating for a while - there are people who are willing to move around. I think she's just ruling out people who are 100% sure that they want to live in that state forever and never want to move.

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Sounds like she wants to leave sooner than years later.

 

Maybe she's hoping to meet another college student who might be willing to move with her when they graduate? Or maybe some guys wouldn't mind moving to a different state if they'd been dating for a while - there are people who are willing to move around. I think she's just ruling out people who are 100% sure that they want to live in that state forever and never want to move.
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Sounds like she wants to leave sooner than years later.

 

So what? Who cares what she wants? If it doesn't fit your future plans then don't contact her. Just because she lives near you doesn't mean you HAVE to pursue a date with her. You already know it's not going to work, she has a right to her ambitions, leave her alone. There's no reason for you to go after a girl you know won't be around.

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