darn8 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 (edited) What would you make out when a girl positively expresses physically that they like you but she just doesn't want to see me one on one? She also showers me with complements all the time. We hung out and we had awesome time. I'm the one always initiates contact but she always replies/calls back straight away. She even promises what she wants to do together in the future. Yet she doesn't ask me about anything or tells me about her day or anything. She gives me very little to talk about. I always have to lead the convo and ask stuff (where I get my answers without delay). But then she also tells me about "good looking" other guys. WTF? She is very much "on" when we are in person. But feels bit "off" when we are talking through text/email. Not that I have trouble with above but I'm interested and want to make this feeling grow. But how can I grow my feelings towards her when she acts like this? I feel like I'm being played that I'm so frustrated almost feel like moving on now. I never came accross any girl like this before. It always has been smooth. Not with this time. Is this because she got cheated on last relationship? But she didn't seem hurt by it at all. Or very good at not expressing it. She is not a shy type at all. Have lots of outgoing guy friends. Edited January 25, 2011 by darn8
depplover_1980 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Sounds like she has read books on 'how to get a guy to want you'!!
Author darn8 Posted January 25, 2011 Author Posted January 25, 2011 Actually quite the opposite cauz I feel like I'm about to walk away.
iJester Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 You should walk away. If she asks why the change, tell her you're interested in dating and the door will remain open for her, but not to call you anymore unless that's what she wants. Best to be honest and up front, it shoots games like this dead in the water.
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