women (relationship problems due to facebook/myspace){23}m

[louciferx3]

hi I'm looking for a little advice from mainly females on what to do to help my girlfriend fall back in love with me now I know I can't make her but if I can win her heart over again I will be set for life. that's all I want in life is my britt<3 she's the prettiest funniest cutest smartest girl in the whole world literally I've never met anyone like her in my entire life she's such a sweetie. I met her online about 4 years ago and we talked on myspace for about two years. she had a scumbag bf who would treat her like **** n was a total weirdo. I finally got to hang w her after two years of talking to her online because her n her ex broke it off after 4 years. ever since that day we first hungout she hasn't left my side <3 we live in ct both grew up here but moved to pa togeather n had our own apartment after 3 months of dating. now I knew for a fact.I was in love but I was acting really stupid because I would flirt online still because I was used to that my whole life basically. brittany is my first two year relationship she is the first true love I've ever had. I thought I was in love w my prior gf for 6 months but she treated me like scum. she is also scum so that's fine lol. but there is something about britt that I can never let go. she makes me smile so big. you have no idea this girl is so beautiful inside and out. now for the past couple months she's been feeling so depressed. that girl and I have been to hell and back togeather. we struggled addictions serparations being home,ess at such young ages and both had a horrible childhood and pretty much don't have anyone but eachother. I feel like the biggest piece of **** wveryday for the past 8 months because of what I've done. n I've made the mistake w her a few times for me to snap out of it. now I'm beoing completley honest here this is why i m asking for help but I haven't done anything like that in a long time, even deleted facebook lol. but britt doesn't deeserve to feel like that n a couple weeks ago she said she needed time to think. then I thought we got back togeather n tonight I found out we didn't really n she's considering really leaving me. I can't let her leave she is my heart n I believe I won't get her back if she goes. I can't let her goo. she's so great to me and for me n all I wanna do is love her. n treat her right n get married n have kids w her. please! I'm begging you for advice on how to show her n prove to. her that all I want is her in life n she never has to worry. I know I can't automatucally get trust back but I just want her to llove me forever still, like we planned. she's perfect I need her. tonight she said she doesn't wanna be in a relationship that needed to be worked on n it made me cry. I'm still crying now its 4am I can't sleep n the only reason I found or know about forums is because she used to go on baby conciving forums when we were trying to concive. :/ boy would I love to ttry that agin . please I need your help someone asap preferably a girl with experience thanks.

[aerogurl87]

It sounds like your relationship may have been based more on an addiction than actual love. That's fine because my ex and I had a passionate and tumultuous relationship that was like that. I thought it was love but after the fog of "being in love" cleared I saw it for what it was. It was an addiction. He needed me to give him this love high and I needed to save him from himself.

 

She may be doing what's best for both of you, and I know with first loves this is really hard to comprehend when you break up. It's like "how can being apart be good for us when it will hurt us so much?" But trust me, in time you'll see that it may be for the best. Maybe it will give you time to work on yourselves and then get back together down the road when you're new and better as individuals, and then you can have a strong healthy relationship. But for now I think you should maybe let her go.

[Lucky_One]

What is it you have done that has lost her trust? What is the FB/Myspace connection?