thompscs Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 Here's my situation. I broke up with my girlfriend two years ago cause I had some drinking issues and wasn't willing to change at that time. I later realized that she was the love of my life and have spent the last two years pursuing her and explaining to her I am changing my life. So after I sent her a birthday gift, she finally contact me and said I know there are some things you've been wanting to tell me, so let's talk. So I called her last night and we talked for about 30 minutes and it went really well. We laughed about old times, I talked to her about how I've changed and quit drinking. She did mention she has been in a relationship with a man for about 7 months and that she didn't think it would be fair to him for us to meet at this time. I kept my cool even though it bothered me and I told her I respected his position and her's. She said she appreciated that. We went on to talk more about her job and even her family after I asked her how she was doing. I think she really enjoyed the phone call and even said at the end that she was glad we talked. At one point I even flirted with her and said I'm sure she is as beautiful as ever. And she seemed to melt and enjoy the compliment. So my question is do I have a chance? How do you think she will respond to this and what should I do now that she's talking again. Thanks. thompscs
DustySaltus Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 The best thing to do right now is to let things be and live your life. She's in a relationship now and you should respect that. You wouldn't want her to be calling someone else if she was with you. If it's meant to be, things have a way of coming full circle. It may take months, years, decades or it may never happen. You realized your issues and addressed them, that's commendable. At the very least that relationship has helped you to grow up. Again, just take a step back and leave it alone. She knows where to find you if she wants to pursue things again. You've said your piece, now it's time to move forward.
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