BF was a "swinger"

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We have been together for almost 2 years, in the beginning we had a slave/master sex thing going on. ( i was the "slave" ) and it worked well for the first year. He brought his friend into it, as an "additional" master. I know this is all bizarre, but I think he wasnt planning on falling in love with me, so it was all fun and games. Anyways, I found out that he was a swinger with his ex wife and this friend he brought into our relationship. He said he only did it once. And never did the MMF thing except with me. I just dont know what to believe. We have stopped all that cause he says he has fallen in love with me and cant stand to see me with someone ect...I just think if that friend brought up the opportunity that he might do it. We live an hour apart. So its not like I am at his door all the time. Can people just give up that lifestyle? Both the swinging and the slave stuff? Anybody????

[LucreziaBorgia]

I would say since you found him on a dating site in a recent thread that no, he does not intend to be or become monogamous with you or give up that lifestyle (at least not in your relationship). Someone else may come along that changes that for him, but if you are looking for that in this relationship it is pretty clear you won't find it.

[depplover_1980]

If you are a Master you can't just give it up as it's part of you and I doubt he only swung once if he brought someone into your own bedroom, which was swinging. I would enjoy this man while looking for someone else, then drop him like a stone into a lake. Splash!

[Untouchable_Fire]

If you are a Master you can't just give it up as it's part of you and I doubt he only swung once if he brought someone into your own bedroom, which was swinging. I would enjoy this man while looking for someone else, then drop him like a stone into a lake. Splash!

 

This is seriously good advice!