So... I just found out that girl I've been wanting to get with liked me too

[Kain Highwind]

Does that change anything?

 

I'm taking the painting class she took last semester and the teacher recognized my name once I said I knew her. She said that the girl was working on the painting for me throughout the whole semester and that she brought it to her because she wanted it to be really good since she really liked this guy (me)

 

She's still with that other guy though... Anything I can do? We just started talking mnnormally a few days ago

[Kain Highwind]

And its the same girl that I've always posted about

[Nexus One]

She's still with that other guy though... Anything I can do?

 

She's with another guy, but she's making a painting for you, because she likes you so much?

 

Why is she still with that other guy then? Does she intend to cheat or break up with him?

 

We just started talking mnnormally a few days ago

 

What does that mean?

[denise_xo]

Didn't she make that painting for you before she got together with that other guy?

[Kain Highwind]

She's with another guy, but she's making a painting for you, because she likes you so much?

 

Why is she still with that other guy then? Does she intend to cheat or break up with him?

 

 

 

What does that mean?

idk. She started on it before she got with him and she apparently did it because she really liked me

 

We didn't talk for a while because I asked her out on a date even though she said right before I did that she went on a date with her now bf the day before. We're good now but she got mad at me for it since she said I wasn't respecting her

[Kain Highwind]

Didn't she make that painting for you before she got together with that other guy?

She started on it but she worked on it through the whole semester

[tigressA]

I don't think I've posted in any of your other threads but I've read them. And from what I've seen, you need to get over this girl. It doesn't matter that she liked you or still does since she's with some other guy. If she had ever really cared about you that much she either wouldn't have started dating that guy or she would've broken up with him for you. Neither of those things have happened. Why waste your time continuing to post about this girl when you could be moving on and dating others who actually would want to be with you?

[Kain Highwind]

I don't think I've posted in any of your other threads but I've read them. And from what I've seen, you need to get over this girl. It doesn't matter that she liked you or still does since she's with some other guy. If she had ever really cared about you that much she either wouldn't have started dating that guy or she would've broken up with him for you. Neither of those things have happened. Why waste your time continuing to post about this girl when you could be moving on and dating others who actually would want to be with you?

Well I'm not denying that she likes him but I seriously think the only reason we didn't get together is because we didn't talk for a while when classes started

[tigressA]

Well I'm not denying that she likes him but I seriously think the only reason we didn't get together is because we didn't talk for a while when classes started

 

It doesn't matter because you're not together, period, and she's with someone else. Like Nightsky said, your window of opportunity is long gone and this new information changes absolutely nothing. Fuhgeddaboudit.

[Kain Highwind]

It doesn't matter because you're not together, period, and she's with someone else. Like Nightsky said, your window of opportunity is long gone and this new information changes absolutely nothing. Fuhgeddaboudit.

But I'm holding onto the fact that it wasn't my only chance

 

People rarely have only one chance to get with someone and I mean... If its meant to happen, its gonna happen

[tigressA]

But I'm holding onto the fact that it wasn't my only chance

 

People rarely have only one chance to get with someone and I mean... If its meant to happen, its gonna happen

 

Well, so far it hasn't happened. Do you really intend to just sit around pining for this girl in the hopes that she'll come around and you'll have your fairytale "If it's meant to happen it's gonna happen" ending? If so, well...good luck to you. You'll very likely be down in the dumps the whole time.

[Kain Highwind]

Well, so far it hasn't happened. Do you really intend to just sit around pining for this girl in the hopes that she'll come around and you'll have your fairytale "If it's meant to happen it's gonna happen" ending? If so, well...good luck to you. You'll very likely be down in the dumps the whole time.

Well, I just think that if they split up that I've got this

 

I realize that's a big "if" but I mean... She liked me, so I'm sure she'd at least give me a chance

 

And really, they haven't even eben together that long. I mean, it hasn't even been three months

[denise_xo]

Kain, your threads are a bit like the broken record of LS.

 

I second Nightsky:

 

Move on and enjoy life. Ask some new girls out.

 

Nothing to lose as long as this girl is with someone else.

[Kain Highwind]

Kain, your threads are a bit like the broken record of LS.

 

I second Nightsky:

 

 

 

Nothing to lose as long as this girl is with someone else.

I've tried and well... I just really haven't enjoyed it

 

none of them were close to as good as she is

[tigressA]

Do you understand that the way you are behaving decreases your chances of ever being with her?

 

You tried right? Do you feel like trying again right at this moment?

 

The situation is the same as the last time you asked her out and you know she would say “no.” Probably say “no” a little harder then last times “I don’t date more then one guy at a time.”

 

If you moved on and stopped thinking about this you have a chance. A chance at a new life whether it be with her or some one else. You seem to think you gain some advantage by staying upset about this. You don’t.

 

A lot of people can relate to what you’re going through, and they would tell you to put your hope in yourself. You’re going to be fine whether you end up with this girl or most likely some one else.

 

I think we've done the best we could in talking to this guy. He likely won't see the light until this girl has to resort to slapping a restraining order on him or something.

[Kain Highwind]

I think we've done the best we could in talking to this guy. He likely won't see the light until this girl has to resort to slapping a restraining order on him or something.

I doubt that'd happen

 

I mean, we just started talking a few days ago

[Cracker Jack]

I'm still wondering what advice you're actually seeking on here?

[Nexus One]

She has a boyfriend. You shouldn't come between two lovers, that's unethical. Your trying might cause arguments and even a split up in their relationship. Retract yourself tactfully from her presence and if you ever get to hear she's single, then go for it.