Owl Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Blizzard, you need to say it point blank, up front, out in the open, unmistakeably. Men do not communicate like women do. If you want change...you communicate change. Stop ASSUMING he gets it. He knows something's wrong, I've no doubt. But unless you're having direct, point blank communication...odds are he doesn't fully "get it". Read the above again... Men do not communicate like women do. You need to communicate this in HIS terms...not yours. There's nothing wrong with "showing" how you feel...but you need to back that up with point blank WORDS. So...with that said...when are you going to have that "sit down" talk with him?
robf1971 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 He knows something's wrong, I've no doubt. But unless you're having direct, point blank communication...odds are he doesn't fully "get it". Yep, I knew the windows were creaking in my marriage but I wasn't exepecting the house to fall down like it did. Bottom line she was doing the same as you ie communicating it like you are to your hubby, I'm by no means stupid but I didn't "get it" Anyway once I did get it through some blunt communication on her part, guess what I was able to make the lasting changes I needed to and things got much better in our Marriage.
rugbyplayer1990 Posted February 16, 2011 Posted February 16, 2011 Blizzard, you are still in love with him? As Rob said, did you tell him? Let's say he did make a huge change in his behaviour, would you consider taking him back? Thank you for this post it has been very helpful to me!!
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