sandiego Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 So I met an amazing girl last week. We've only met once, but it went well....we've texted everyday since our first date. We both confessed how amazing we think eachother are and how we're really happy we met.....and can't wait to see eachother again, get to know eachother better etc. We work different schedules, but I always will find time for someone I'm interested in. She mentioned her next best time to meet is over a weekend two weeks from now. Everything about our communication seems to show/support she's very interested, however, I can't help but wonder why we can't meet for two weeks? It seems like a long time in between dates. Am I over thinking this ladies? Any advice would be appreciated! SD
Ms. Joolie Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 I would do one of two things: 1) Be curious about her life, ask her what she's up to. So long as she's not putting you off, she won't mind sharing what's going on in her life. Through a friendly conversation, you may be able to uncover why she's scheduling you so far out. Maybe she really is too busy until then, or maybe she just needs to see that all you are asking for is a little time together. Sometimes busy people make dating a big thing and simply don't make time for it. 2) Have an emotional outburst, ask for more time and give her an ultimatum. Give her her cell phone# back. So I don't know. Flip a coin.
Author sandiego Posted January 25, 2011 Author Posted January 25, 2011 Hey Ms. Joolie, Thanks for your reply...I'm thinking #1 is (clearly) the way to go. Thanks for bringing this into perspective. She really does work an opposite schedule (late afternoon to early morning as an ER tech)....so I'm hoping she really is just busy. I spend several hours a day chatting/texting....she's never been short with me, always engaging in conversation, asking questions etc. I would hope a girl that wasn't really into it wouldn't take the time and effort that she has. I probably just need to relax and let it happen organically....it'll work out, or it won't. Time will reveal. I appreciate you taking the time to respond and offer advice. Much appreciated! SD
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