cosmopolite27 Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months. About a month ago she got a job in Canada and it is pretty crucial for her career to take it at this point. We also weren't as involved as we are now when she accepted it. She leaves in a month. We have not had any serious issues... not a fight.. we get along great.. and basically she is the type of girl that I see myself marrying. We have been talking like this is going to turn into a Long distance relationship for about a year or so, after which she will return to this city. I've been entertaining the thought of popping the big question to her before she leaves... a part of me thinks that is somewhat illogical and dumb considering that we don't know when we'd be in the same city again. She is also greek, and from what I gather it is proper to ask the parents for permission before proposing. What would you do knowing that you can't up and leave your current city? Hold out to see if the long distance relationship stays together then propose.. propose before she leaves... or wait till she actually comes back? Thanks in advance.
Stonewall Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO do not do this it is way to early for that.... 3 months isn't enough time to actually get to know a person well enough for this kind of commitment. I have known many people who have popped the question early in their relationships... it never ended well. (don't fool yourself 3 months is early in a relationship)
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