ginseng_deehee Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 hi, There's this girl at the place i work that started on the same day as me. In the past couple of weeks, we've started to talk more, and get to know each other. She has a boyfriend that she's been with for 6 years, but i get mixed signals from her. She suggested we go for a drink on Friday after work, which i saw no harm in. She mentioned her boyfriend now and again but not in great length. Then she was talking about how flirting is harmless, but how she's had guys try to chat her up etc. Also that she's not cheated, but she said if she felt that she was going to cheat, she would know that her boyfriend wasn't the one she wanted to be with. She kept making eye contact with me, longer than usual, and we were having a good time I am single but i've not chatted her up or ask for her number. I do like her but i don't know how she feels. I'm more like a friend than anything else, but i don't know exactly what to think. She calls me "honey" and "babe" and says she appreciates me walking her to get the train home every day after work. What do i do?
depplover_1980 Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 This girl clearly has problems at home and is using you to build her ego, so she feels that bit sexier and attractive. She may even be tempted to cheat with you to either end her relationship, or provoke a reaction. Really you don't want to be that guy considering all the trouble it would cause. Eventually you'll meet someone single and lovely!
Seamless74 Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 (edited) Yeah been there bro congrats.. youve already been friendzoned.. why you were playing checkers she was playing chess and your ass already got checkmated... about the eyecontact and the initiating a drink after work dont mean a thing i second everything DEPPLOVER said its the truth went through a similar thing at work six months ago... doesnt mean a thing and the girl is definately bad news... "attention whore" There was a girl in my last training class at work and me and another guy were kinda interested we all went for drinks and everything just like you describe I realized what she was up to and bowed out gracefully saving face, the other dude well he went full bore like your thinking bout took her out to dinner, bought her lunch, basetball games, etc all the while she had a live in boyfriend lol.,,, Anyway fast forward a month or two later me and her were civil she still tries to chat me up occasionally i just be nice and so forth and the other dude well she put his ass up on sexual harrassment with their immediate superiours and you guessed it he no longer works for the company... Edited January 24, 2011 by Seamless74
Nexus One Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 hi, There's this girl at the place i work that started on the same day as me. In the past couple of weeks, we've started to talk more, and get to know each other. She has a boyfriend that she's been with for 6 years, but i get mixed signals from her. She suggested we go for a drink on Friday after work, which i saw no harm in. She mentioned her boyfriend now and again but not in great length. Then she was talking about how flirting is harmless, but how she's had guys try to chat her up etc. Also that she's not cheated, but she said if she felt that she was going to cheat, she would know that her boyfriend wasn't the one she wanted to be with. She kept making eye contact with me, longer than usual, and we were having a good time I am single but i've not chatted her up or ask for her number. I do like her but i don't know how she feels. I'm more like a friend than anything else, but i don't know exactly what to think. She calls me "honey" and "babe" and says she appreciates me walking her to get the train home every day after work. What do i do? If she's going to cheat on her boyfriend, then don't be the guy she'll be cheating with. Don't come between two lovers, even if she wants it.
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