Funf Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now and although I'm very happy with our relationship, I'm surprised that we made it this far. November and the beginning of Dec was challenging because we were both very busy with school and our jobs but somehow we pulled through. Now things have steadied more or less so we see each other more often on a routine basis. However, Mar-Julyish is going to be rough again. My schedule is going to be okay but his is going to be hectic again with school/work. We're going to be lucky if we're going to be able to see each other once a week during that time period. The both of us knew his schedule was going to be like this before we started dating each other. I'm feeling a little bit more confident than I did in the November time period because at least we will have been dating a while and have a better foundation than before when we were just starting to date each other. Having said that, I'm having difficulty not worrying about what's going to happen. With all that worrying, it's really hard to enjoy the present time with him. I keep thinking to myself: "If the hectic schedule is going to put a strain on our relationship, causing it to end, why do I even bother? If I get out earlier, there'll be less pain." I know I shouldn't think like that, but I can't help it. Any advice?
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