Roobin Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 What can you tell me about your experiences with married women, cause I got this one who s driving me crazy, as she is gorgeous just doesn t let go and she doesn t mind when I am around even if her husband is too. A total heart crusher!! lol
Nexus One Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 What can you tell me about your experiences with married women, cause I got this one who s driving me crazy, as she is gorgeous just doesn t let go and she doesn t mind when I am around even if her husband is too. A total heart crusher!! lol Yes, you should just disappear. It's unethical to become between two lovers. It can cause a split between them or arguments. If you don't retract yourself from the situation you'll be willfully f*cking with their marriage.
carhill Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 You know when you encounter a stubborn bolt and you reach into the toolbox to grab a cheater bar to get more leverage? You're the cheater bar. Women use men just like you use tools. So far, my tally is two divorces and one shaky marriage and some personal emotional baggage from the experiences. I would say, if you don't care about the marriages and can act without feeling, you have a good chance of finding some personal pleasure in the process. Otherwise, YMMV. If you set a boundary early and 'disappear', perhaps things will work out better. Looks like, IME, the shaky marriage will work out. I set the boundary early and suggested MC. I am hopeful. Good luck.
Author Roobin Posted January 23, 2011 Author Posted January 23, 2011 I had a situation in the past pretty much like this one, but in that one she told me things between her and her husband were going very bad and she did what she could for us to be together, it was a wonderful experience and in the end she got separated from this guy, but she never said she wanted to stay with me either. Its a strange story, as I had to leave the country and never really understood what kind of feelings she had for me, tried to talk to her a few years later and found she was another guy and happy, she only said that she hasnt forgotten about me and sometimes she couldnt sleep well thinking what might have been. With this one now, she has been married only for six months, and I think she might have done to get the nationality,a friend of hers told me that doesnt think she loves him, and that could explain many things. Now, I wouldnt force anything to get between any ones marriage unless I have strong reasons to think that Love is not the issue. What you think?
xpaperxcutx Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 IF that's you in the picture, I don't understand what's stopping you from attracting healthy, single women? Or maybe you just like hearing people talk about how they can't stop thinking about you... When people like to talk out of their ass like that and doesn't follow it with actions, it means they have ulterior motives to keep your undivided attention.
Author Roobin Posted January 23, 2011 Author Posted January 23, 2011 I wish I could find someone to be honest, but I had a break up that completely shattered my confidence and I am not being proactive at all! So, the only way I can have any one now is the people that come to me (rotten apples). Anyway I think women sometimes use men, but some other times they are crying out for someone they would love, I know many relationships where ppl feel miserable but carry on just afraid of ending up alone, its not my business some might say, but it is normal when someone is more vulnerable these things happen, besides the places where I work and study dont have any of these women like her!!
xpaperxcutx Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 I wish I could find someone to be honest, but I had a break up that completely shattered my confidence and I am not being proactive at all! So, the only way I can have any one now is the people that come to me (rotten apples). Anyway I think women sometimes use men, but some other times they are crying out for someone they would love, I know many relationships where ppl feel miserable but carry on just afraid of ending up alone, its not my business some might say, but it is normal when someone is more vulnerable these things happen, besides the places where I work and study dont have any of these women like her!! Maybe that's something to work on. I have seen many people who jump on the band wagon as soon as someone new decides to show interest, these are the same people who doesn't pursue or become socially active. The problem here is, you're not detaching yourself from a bad situation, you're merely allowing it to happen because this " attractive" woman is showing interest. If you see you have other options on hand, she would be the least of your worries, in fact, you would have just put her on the back burner as she'd done you.
Author Roobin Posted January 23, 2011 Author Posted January 23, 2011 I have other women interested, but the feeling is not reciprocal, happens to me a lot, somehow I just dont feel attracted to them! My last gf was one of these situations where I was in love but not completely full filled, result I ended up neglecting my duties as a bf until she fed up with me! So the very first thing I need to do next is to make sure I think it is going to last and that for the next person I will do everything to be with her. This woman I met, she could have gone for millions of guys as she owns a bar and meets lots of people, I wonder if she felt the smell of loneliness altogether, we never even looked at each other or anything at least that I have noticed, she found me a few days later on FB. Then we talked and I must say I am attracted o her!
Questionis Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 I wish I could find someone to be honest, but I had a break up that completely shattered my confidence and I am not being proactive at all! So, the only way I can have any one now is the people that come to me (rotten apples). Anyway I think women sometimes use men, but some other times they are crying out for someone they would love, I know many relationships where ppl feel miserable but carry on just afraid of ending up alone, its not my business some might say, but it is normal when someone is more vulnerable these things happen, besides the places where I work and study dont have any of these women like her!! Look,I need to ask you, why don't you see that your vulnerable heart is crying out for someone to treat it with respect and affection can you see that YOU are miserable?
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