Vickstar Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Basically got dumped 4 months ago by my ex bf of a year, hes now with a new girl but cant see it lasting that long cos they work together and shes going travelling in a few months. I want him to come back to me but i dont think i would take him back cos he hurt me so much, i just want the satisfaction of telling him that i dont want him, i know its pretty stupid and pointless. Does anyone else feel like this with their ex's?
PowerOfOne Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 I want him to come back to me but i dont think i would take him back cos he hurt me so much, i just want the satisfaction of telling him that i dont want him, i know its pretty stupid and pointless. I'm 2 months out and yes, I definatly know those feelings. I'm trying not to entertain those thoughts though. It's not exactly a positive vibe to throw out... I'm working on keeping happier thoughts.
2010_Sorry Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Yes, I believe we all have a phase we go through when we are dumped where we wish the pain and depression on the one that hurt us. What you are going through is normal.... While PowerOfOne is right that it's not a positive vibe to throw out, it's something we have to work through. Once you can see your ex and truly wish nothing but goode things in his life, you will be healed... and believe me, it's a WONDERFUL place to be!!
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