luvflower Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 stop being so easy going and care-free with the guys. be more observant and a wee bit more protective of your heart. 1
jane100 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 1 So just remember, if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. I'm realizing that myself it seems, but we all have to come to this conclusion at some point. Painful lesson and hard to accept, but it is a necessary truth to learn. Morten's final comment did struck a chord with me albeit a difficult one. Sometimes its just not meant to be...... Perhaps for me there is the real possibility that the relationship I want may not happen and I think I have to walk that line to create that balance. That way one's spirit remains open but with less room for disillusionment, if that makes sense.
jane100 Posted January 25, 2011 Posted January 25, 2011 some of the sweetest people in this world get taken advantage of just because they are just "too sweet" ... i believe that people should have more of a balance of life expectations and what we expect in relationships with others, in a realistic sense. ..... ...meaning don't give so much of your "love" away to just anyone. your love to me is any part of "you" that you value. hanging out is cool, but i always felt like you have to be careful who you give your time to and who you allow in your circle of joy and peace. some people just like being around people who stroke their egos and make them feel good, while you are left feeling drained and empty. in essence, love yourself just as much or more than you want others to. and most importantly, don't be afraid to show it! great points IMO. hope they are helping you Paddington.
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