ChicaMusica Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Ok, so I am interested in dating, but I don't have anyone I like right now at all. The thing is, I haven't liked anyone since my last crush went sour this year. He dated my best friend and hurt her, but I still wasn't over him. We soon stopped being close, but he was the first guy I ever felt safe opening up to. Person actually, as I hardly do the whole touchy feely thing. My only attractions have been to guys who can stand toe to toe with me in an argument (ok think of a shounen couple that fights a bunch, but you know eventually are gonna get together) Me and him would always rib eachother, but we were really nice to eachother deep down. I guess I can't deal with overly nice, polite guys who agree with everything you say and try to be nice and sympathetic. I know they mean well, but I am unable to respond well to overly nice people, or sympathy or pity. It makes me feel like they think I'm weak. I don't let my guard down for anything, and it kills my attraction for guys who are seriously overly nice. I just don't know what to do. Is it odd that I can only find "love" in a slap slap kiss kind of relationship? Someone who gets under my skin? Then again, I have this type of relationship with a few guys but I have no feelings for them. I'm just so utterly confused.
Nexus One Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Ok, so I am interested in dating, but I don't have anyone I like right now at all. The thing is, I haven't liked anyone since my last crush went sour this year. He dated my best friend and hurt her, but I still wasn't over him. We soon stopped being close, but he was the first guy I ever felt safe opening up to. Person actually, as I hardly do the whole touchy feely thing. My only attractions have been to guys who can stand toe to toe with me in an argument (ok think of a shounen couple that fights a bunch, but you know eventually are gonna get together) Me and him would always rib eachother, but we were really nice to eachother deep down. I guess I can't deal with overly nice, polite guys who agree with everything you say and try to be nice and sympathetic. I know they mean well, but I am unable to respond well to overly nice people, or sympathy or pity. It makes me feel like they think I'm weak. I don't let my guard down for anything, and it kills my attraction for guys who are seriously overly nice. I just don't know what to do. Is it odd that I can only find "love" in a slap slap kiss kind of relationship? Someone who gets under my skin? Then again, I have this type of relationship with a few guys but I have no feelings for them. I'm just so utterly confused. You sound like someone who likes drama or requires drama. Guys do not like drama. Drama is stress.
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