juliejeanes Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 He says he isnt cheating but my friend told me he saw him with a girl in his car in Ashland and this girl that I suspect lives in Ashland. I am not stupid. I told him I knew and I sent her a msg and told her I knew and I will pray for her and she needs to pray for herself for messing with a married man. He has called me 3 times today but I ignored them and he left a msg stating if he was going to get our son. I dont want to talk to him or see him right now so I called his mom and told her if he wants him he can get someone else to come get him bc I wont no contact with him right now whatsoever. He didnt get him. Sorry I just had to vent.
tobydog1 Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Why do they lie? I'm in the same situation, he syas he is not havng an A but all the evidence is there and I AM not stupid! As you aren't. I don't blame you for doing what you did, I know they have a right to see their children but I think they diminish that right considerably when they up and leave. Mine upped and left, adandoned us over 4 months ago, with no money and no contact ( until the last week of crumbs) Does he still have a right to see his son. Yes and No I would say. You are right to get someone else to pick him up, I will do the same now....Take care x
2010_Sorry Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 They're in denial. They don't want to hurt you... but they don't want their affairs to end. They don't know how to handle all of the emotions. Not making excuses for the behavior at all... just answering the questions. It's not a healthy place to be, and as soon as you can cut ties... the healthier you will be. You do not want to get dragged into the drama and pain any longer than absolutely necessary. Sorry that you are going through this. Lots of hugs!!
Author juliejeanes Posted January 24, 2011 Author Posted January 24, 2011 thanks for the comments. I still love him though. I am praying that with me not contacting him or seeing him will change his heart and come back home. I just want my family back together. He kept telling me he loved me but as soon as he found out about me going to file for child and spousal support he said he didnt love me anymore. I believe he still loves me I mean how can u just fall out of love with someone instantly?
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