brneyedgrl Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 My ex and I were together for 6 years before he decided (2 weeks ago) he no longer wanted a relationship he just wanted to be alone (read previous posts). The b/u caught me off guard and I was completely heartbroken and depressed as he didn't give me a clear understandable answer. We still live together though with our schedules and getting out of the house at times, I have managed to maintain NC for about 8 days. I have a strong support system and I've gone over and over our relationship and the b/u in my head and am coming to terms with it. I will survive and heal and be ok even though it will take time. My issue right now is that our move date is coming up within 2 weeks and I will have to see him at some point to handle the financial and moving tasks. I feel I have actually come far in only 8 days and am realizing that I may just be better off without him. However, I am scared the second I see his face and start talking to him I'll be back to square one. I'll get emotional and think he's the only man for me and that I can't let him go after 6 years of putting everything into it. Any advice for how to keep my head on straight through this break of NC?
depplover_1980 Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Is there no way a close friend or family member can do the face to face bits and perhaps the rest by email avoiding personal questions to each other? Then you could move your stuff out seperately with help? Also on the issue of seeing him face to face, even if you get feelings of not wanting to let him go, that was taken out of your hands anyway...
Author brneyedgrl Posted January 24, 2011 Author Posted January 24, 2011 The moving part I can leave him out of but the signing of the move out papers and the walk through we'll have to be together for... ugh. I hope I can maintain this newfound way of thinking that I'm better off without him!
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