bsilmb Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 ok so there's this girl, we will call her Aimee. I've known Aimee since freshman year (last year) but we hardly talked. now this year, starting in august, I saw her in the library cuz we are both on newspaper. I asked her what she was up to then talked to her for about an hour. at the end I got her number and things looked good and then at some point in september we just stopped talking almost completely. recently in the past month or so we've been texting more frequently and talk a LITTLE in class. both me and my friend who has a class with her is under the impression she is iterested in me. she is always joking and stuff, but sometimes she just is flirty and says things that make me think she likes me. I offered for her to tag along with me and some friends today but she decided not to cuz she wouldve been the only girl and my friends don't know her, but she seemed happy for the offer. she gives me trouble for not talking to her more in class. we have. dance coming up on February 12. I was thinking I should ask her to that so that there's not too much implications of dating yet. but if things were to go well, I was gonna ask her out. so what should I do? thanks guys and girls
Author bsilmb Posted January 23, 2011 Author Posted January 23, 2011 When she said “I'd be the only girl” you should have replied with “lets hang out just us.” You didn’t make a hard offer to refuse with "come tag along.” yeah I was kinda just tryingto be nice so she would know for future reference that I want to hang out with her. we talked a while and she seemed to be really starting to like me. she even sent a text "why all the subtle compliments?:)" I think I'm gonna keep talking to her then ask her to the dance coming up.
denise_xo Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 bump bump bump Oh come on, bsilmb. You've basically asked the same question on at least five threads now (but probably with reference to different women ) and 90% of the responses can be summarised into 'ASK THE GIRL OUT ON A DATE' (or, alternatively, 'kiss her'). Now go bloody do it
Author bsilmb Posted January 24, 2011 Author Posted January 24, 2011 Oh come on, bsilmb. You've basically asked the same question on at least five threads now (but probably with reference to different women ) and 90% of the responses can be summarised into 'ASK THE GIRL OUT ON A DATE' (or, alternatively, 'kiss her'). Now go bloody do it thanks, I WILL ask her to the dance. she actually called me today and we initially talked about her story, but then talked about random stuff for about 20 minutes
Author bsilmb Posted January 24, 2011 Author Posted January 24, 2011 so she asked me how I felt about her. I told her I kinda like her. she told me that she always screws things up and doesn't realize she likes a guy til it's too late. she said she wasn't sure if she liked me, but she likes talking to me. I then just got forward and asked if she's just letting me down easy. but she says "not at all. it is what is says" so basically I'm thinking it's my job to progress things further until she realizes she likes me. I'll ask her to the dance and start hanging or with her. I'll keep flirtiness up and kiss her. what do y'all think?
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