PLease help I lost my love and he's playing mind games!! does he really care

[TornInside]

I really need all the advice I can get so if anybody knows anything for me to do in my situtation below please do. I"m still pretty young but I believe I've found the love of my life. we were only together for about 2 weeks but I found something in him I"ve never felt with anybody else I known. WE both felt as though we loved each other and didnt want to do anything but spend time with one another and talk .

 

 

One weekend I went to stay with a friend and Someone told him I went to a hotel room with my ex. He has a bad trust level and went crazy over this because he couldnt get a hold of me at my friends place. This brought him to believe I did go to the hotel and he broke up with me. I tried to do everything I could to get him to believe that I wasn't here but he just wouldnt

 

Still to this day which has been about a month we arent together . We talk now and he flirts with me and etc. but wont get back with me I've tried to be patient , but I keep talking to him and telling him how much I love him and we need to get back together. He tells me he still loves me but he's un sure wheather or not he wants to be with me. He started dating this other girl and but she broke up with me and still when he was dating her he said he loved me.

 

He's been very confusing through this whole matter. One day he wants to talk with me and flirt and etc. and the next day he's trying to go talk to these others chicks and doesnt want to spend time with me!!!

 

please tell me some things I can do that would help myself out !!! Should I completely drop him and see if he comes back to me??? I try and just be his friend but i find myself getting caught up in the momment and thinking of oldtimes.

 

please just give me advice I'm very confused and need all the help I can get.

[Sundaymorning]

i guess he doesnt trust you. sounds pretty fishy to me though, who would tell him such a thing? why would he beleive it without asking you?

move on....

[TornInside]

Originally posted by Sundaymorning

i guess he doesnt trust you. sounds pretty fishy to me though, who would tell him such a thing? why would he beleive it without asking you?

move on....

 

 

This is the thing my ex is the guy I broke up with for the new one and my ex did get a hotel that night and told some of his friends I and some other girls would be there. I wasmt though and he believed it for the simple fact he said he tried to call my firends place and I we werent there.

I do want to move on , but I feel like I need to keep trying, but trying keeping making me look like a fool because of the stupid **** he does. If there anything else I might be able to try or do . If not how do i move on!!!!

[Arabess]

After only being together for a couple of weeks, it's hard to guess if he was feeling as serious and connected into the relationship as you were.

 

If he's still talking and flirting around with you, maybe he still likes you but just isn't interested in a full blown relationship at this time. It's possible he just used the 'incident' as an excuse to back out of the relationship a little.

 

Flirt back....give him some time. Maybe he'll come around and want to persue the relationship again later. TILL THEN....date other people and have a good time.