the magic of making up?

[exquisite]

does anyone have a free copy of the magic of making up? my bf of more than a year broke up with me 2 days ago & im just in so much pain. im unemployed right now & basically all my money is going to rent & bills. would anyone be able to send me a free copy? please? god im so desperate...all bad things seems to happen at the same time.

[SDA]

Don't buy that book it is not a life saver. Just relax and stop texting or calling him and give him that time and space to do his own thing. If you want you can just say "i agree with your decision to break up" and just disappear for awhile.

 

It is the best thing for both of you at the moment so just take time for yourself. That book is not your saving grace. You are.

 

Your ex will contact you soon enough and that will be the opportunity for you to talk. Give yourself a couple of weeks to evaluate and go through what your feeling. Give it time and post here your story here everyone is helpful and down to earth here.

 

Good luck

[exquisite]

thank you. i did actually post it...it just hurts. im the most crazy romantic. i love him so much. & ik he loves me. its just so hard.

here is my story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t261945/

[gator12]

I have the book if you'd like it but it basically says what the two guides in my signature say. I suggest you read them both, they are very helpful for both moving on and potentially getting back your ex at some point. But you need to know the key to reconciliation is moving on. Otherwise you will end up in the same relationship as before and it will fail again.

[littlek]

there is a copy of it on my website.. if you look at my profile.

[z00m25]

the advice here is probably better than that book, plus a majority of people respond to the posts so its better than just having a book to read.