shawna92 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 well for me it's official...im screwed and nothing can be normal. basically..most guys just try to get sex off me and bail. Or, the guys i want something frmo--even a minor hug, won't touch me. This is basically all that happens to me. I'm an attractive beautiful female. Tonight i went on a date with someone. For some reason.. I found myself, kind of feeling comfortable with the person and trusting him a little- which is rare. I usually never want peopel to touch me, but this time...I actually did. We were in a movie, and I kidn of wanted him to put his arm around me but i didn't say anything but he seemed like he wanted to and even made a comment about lifting the middle armrest up and I said..oh no that's ok. I just desperately wanted for someoen to hug me, and since I felt comfortable I figured...I wish he would but i didn't want to ask. When we left the movie, i told him that it was very rare for me to want a guy to touch me and said I kind of felt comfortable if he would have put his arm around me in the movie. He didnt respond, and just said that he was scareed of rejection or unsure. Odd....yet he never responded to me saying that by saying...that he could do it then etc....I found that odd as I was giving him the signal to even touch me and he didn't respond or care. He kept staring at me in the eyes as if "are you interested" and though I showed interest, we ended up walking off without so much as a hug. Again, how odd....a beautiful girl is telling a guy that she never lets guys touch her yet would feel ok had he put his arm around her and he didnt respond to that---what a weirdo, yet he kept trying to show her he was inteersted. Is there something happening that im missing here? Games? insecurity? This is all guys do to me---either the are trying desperately to get in my pants, OR if i actually want them to touch me, literally they refuse or reject me...sometimes bluntly. For me its not just rejection but a sad twist of stupid fate...that i cant ever get any sexual pleasure ever despite being really hot/pretty....and guys treat me the opposite of what should be happening....and they dont treat me like a woman rather, either a prostitute, sex object, or a non-sexual object....and not much else....most of the time it seems guys dont want to give me what i want....and want to play head games which means depriving me of anything normal. I dont think i'll ever have sex with a guy b/c most guys act insecure intimidated and then reject me....or they are trying to get laid fast...but would do it with anyone anyway.... any reason that these warped scenarios are going on ? I remember I once talked to a guy who told me he knew a girl--who said the same thing..that guys wont touch her or get sexual with her and she'd have to call him for sex....and another guy said that to me once too---that a girl would call him for sex and act like....u saved me because its hard to get it from other people normally...is it true that there aer lots of weird guys in this messed up society that are bizarre and backwards that either they try to use women for sex in a degrading way or just reject them....what on earth is going on its just so confusing....
Surrealist Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Got any pics, sweet pea? I'll be a good assessor of your hotness and sexiness.
oaks Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Tonight i went on a date with someone. Great! Congrats! Did you read the responses to your previous threads? Some good questions were asked that seem still relevant to your situation... try answering some of them and we'll see if we can help you. There was something about a thing called a "paragraph", too. Try them sometime.
mo mo Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 BAM see what I told you? You met a guy you really liked, he showed some self-control (which you keep saying is a problem with guys you date because they just want to screw you), and you think he is a weirdo. This could be the right guy for you but you can't see it because of your preconceived notions.
mo mo Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 On another note, I woulda been weirded out if I was on a date and a girl told me I could have put my arm around her. Show some initiative, it turns guys on.
Titania22 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Shawna do you actually read peoples responses. I noticed you blocked private messages, and if you don't care for people to respond to you, maybe you should just post in the rant section instead of the dating section.
mo mo Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Shawna do you actually read peoples responses. I noticed you blocked private messages, and if you don't care for people to respond to you, maybe you should just post in the rant section instead of the dating section. She just doesn't want to hear that some of the issues she has are her own fault. She keeps saying she's hot and beautiful and that guys should be honored to be with her and treat her like a lady. Textbook case of immaturity and a sense of entitlement.
Titania22 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 She just doesn't want to hear that some of the issues she has are her own fault. She keeps saying she's hot and beautiful and that guys should be honored to be with her and treat her like a lady. Textbook case of immaturity and a sense of entitlement. Yeah, I guess I just find it annoying, when people post on here, if they don't really care for response. This is a forum so we can all interact. Like a conversation, not a monologue.
anne1707 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Shawna do you actually read peoples responses. I noticed you blocked private messages, and if you don't care for people to respond to you, maybe you should just post in the rant section instead of the dating section. At only 10 posts and a member for less than a month, the OP won't have PM privileges yet.
Titania22 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 At only 10 posts and a member for less than a month, the OP won't have PM privileges yet. The message I got was that the user had chosen to block private messages. I would have expected a message such that, the user does not have PM priveledges yet.
EricaH329 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Textbook case of immaturity and a sense of entitlement. Which makes me wonder how old she is. OP - If you are young (which it sounds to me like you are) then young guys don't tend to really know what they are doing. And vice versa, young girls don't either. You say that guys only want sex from you, and that you are beautiful. How are you dressing? In outfits that scream "Look at my body" ? Or more classy outfits? It sounds to me like you just need to mature a bit. You'll learn how to deal with guys who only want sex, and guys that want to be in a relationship with you.
anne1707 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 The message I got was that the user had chosen to block private messages. I would have expected a message such that, the user does not have PM priveledges yet. Unless the OP has decided to pay a subscription to LS and therefore get PM rights immediately, they would not get the ability to PM for a minimum of one month after joining plus after making 50-60 posts (not sure exactly of the numbers). LS is set up this way to stop new posters who may not be "legit" from abusing the site.
mo mo Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Which makes me wonder how old she is. OP - If you are young (which it sounds to me like you are) then young guys don't tend to really know what they are doing. And vice versa, young girls don't either. You say that guys only want sex from you, and that you are beautiful. How are you dressing? In outfits that scream "Look at my body" ? Or more classy outfits? It sounds to me like you just need to mature a bit. You'll learn how to deal with guys who only want sex, and guys that want to be in a relationship with you. She might be as old as she says she is, but she might be something else.. if you know what I mean.
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