oaks Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 In my experience, the most efficient way of finding out if you don't know something is to ask the people it concerns directly. Otherwise, it's just guesswork for people who don't have firsthand knowledge. Yeah, but where's the fun in that when we can bitch about it on a forum.
SarcasticBlonde Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 (edited) I'm really curious where you are seeing that "thugs" are a novelty right now. Wtf? There is nothing attractive about a man that wears his pants down to his knees or speaks in a language called "ebonics". I need a translater for that crap! Just like there is nothing attractive about these "guito" types that wax their eyebrows and wear glitzy shirts with sequins. The girls-women that like these men are usually not very intelligent. They may be "lookers" but that's about it. I'm in an interracial relationship with an Asian man. He is highly intelligent, speaks proper english and knows how to dress. On more thing that myth about Asian men all being small down "there"...also a myth Edited January 22, 2011 by SarcasticBlonde
Distant78 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Don't know what all the fuss is about. My fiance is white and I'm black. Big deal. It's just human beings finding love in different races.
SarcasticBlonde Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 i said before nothing is wrong with intteracial couples, but why isn't it fair on some people like black women for example??? it seems black guys can get any girl they want anytime, many white women become slaves for the black men, yet black women are left all alone and can't find love or sex anywhere I haven't and wouldn't date a black man. I'm not racist but there just isn't an attraction. So no they can't get any girl.
SarcasticBlonde Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 if that is true, then you are really really really rare girl these days Don't think so. Most of my friends have never dated a black guy either..
Distant78 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 i said before nothing is wrong with intteracial couples, but why isn't it fair on some people like black women for example??? it seems black guys can get any girl they want anytime, many white women become slaves for the black men, yet black women are left all alone and can't find love or sex anywhere What do you mean? Don't know about you but I see a quite a few black women with a white man. And that's not true about black men. We can't pull every woman we want. I know that from my own personal experience.
Woggle Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 It's not a racial thing. Juicehead guido types tend to have their pick of women as well because it is the bad boy attraction. Nerdy and quiet black men have just as much of a hard time as any other man. As for the thug attraction it is again the bad boy thing and it has nothing to do with race. I have known a few white women who had crushes on Eminem.
JohnnyBlaze Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 I'm really curious where you are seeing that "thugs" are a novelty right now. Wtf? There is nothing attractive about a man that wears his pants down to his knees or speaks in a language called "ebonics". I need a translater for that crap! I don't think its about the attire, SB; I think Billy had it right with his Billy Joel quote. It's about the thrill as much as anything else. Real thugs, not the wannabe's that you mostly see nowadays, live by a different set of rules than your average Joe (not to be confused with our Average Joe). Yes, some of those rules are held in higher esteem than the law (e.g. don't rat), which gives them kind of an "urban outlaw" image, which in turn, is very alpha. Some women do find that sexy. Here's why I think it's about the appearance of the alpha image, rather than race or attire. Think about girls who go for bikers, soldiers or cops. Each group lives with the mentality of "we have one set of rules, the rest of you have another". Each group takes care of their own, runs in closed circles, trusts others in their group like they were blood, and will rain fire down on anyone who threatens them. Thugs run with the same mentality, hence my theory. I know the counter argument is that, by this theory, girls should also go for white thugs. However, have you ever seen a white guy dress like a thug and not look like a 5 year old who got into his older brother's wardrobe? It just doesn't work.
SteveC80 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 its about "image" more then anything a low key thug who didnt visually play the role wouldnt get as much attention as a wanabee thug who talks and dresses the part
Woggle Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 its about "image" more then anything a low key thug who didnt visually play the role wouldnt get as much attention as a wanabee thug who talks and dresses the part The truth is that most real thugs don't look the role. The big guys who call the shots in the criminal world tend to look like businessmen.
Author singlelife Posted February 24, 2011 Author Posted February 24, 2011 Seen it again this week. I have some friends who are the thug type and they score like crazy with the white girls. They get the nice ones too. No white trash at all. My friends have the pants sagging and all that. The girls I seen them with are look like Kelly Rippa or Jessica Simpson types. So there has to be something to it. White girls just aren't scared or how my friends say skurred. Still don't get it. They get swarmed.
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