singlelife Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I ses lots of hot white girls chasing thugs everywhere. I mean the girls are like barbie doll hot. The thugs have the hat on backward and baggie pants. What is the attraction here?
january2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 I ses lots of hot white girls chasing thugs everywhere. I mean the girls are like barbie doll hot. The thugs have the hat on backward and baggie pants. What is the attraction here? Have you asked them directly?
Author singlelife Posted January 22, 2011 Author Posted January 22, 2011 Was just wondering. It seems to be an epidemic. Didn't know if it was a taboo sex thing or what.
Billy_Boy Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Uptown giiirrrrrrlllllll.... shes been living in her white bread world....
january2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Was just wondering. It seems to be an epidemic. Didn't know if it was a taboo sex thing or what. In my experience, the most efficient way of finding out if you don't know something is to ask the people it concerns directly. Otherwise, it's just guesswork for people who don't have firsthand knowledge.
Author singlelife Posted January 22, 2011 Author Posted January 22, 2011 That's why we all use this forum to try and get different opinions an insight. But thanks.
Billy_Boy Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Singlelife, Most girls, not just the white ones want a tough guy or a bad boy who exudes that raw confidence when they are younger and immature. Genetically wired to want a guy who is going to fight for whats his and make moves. Usually mid to late 20s they start to get serious and want to refine thier selection of a mate, typically a guy who exudes the same confidence but is also polished and going somewhere in life. Its really no different for boys, we are all programmed to want to sleep with girls, especially "sluts" all the way up to our 30s roughly... at which point we start thinking about bigger things in life, like starting a family or getting somewhere in life. With proper emotional growth and maturity we refine away from wanting thugs and sluts to wanting the things that those types offer, with more stability. Women want a guy who is confident and strong, but also is going to take care of them emotionally and love them and be a good person. men want a woman who is sexy, alluring, and loves sex, but who will also be respectable to their peers and family, who they can devote their time and energy to. All things come round eventually. Oh also, its not a racial thing. Dont like to Punjabipower, hes a troll.
SarcasticBlonde Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 I ses lots of hot white girls chasing thugs everywhere. I mean the girls are like barbie doll hot. The thugs have the hat on backward and baggie pants. What is the attraction here? Ew. All set. I prefer preppy guys. The only girls that I see like that live in the inner city.
Author singlelife Posted January 22, 2011 Author Posted January 22, 2011 Ew. All set. I prefer preppy guys. The only girls that I see like that live in the inner city. If that's your pic it is very pretty. But no, I have seen guys with girls that look like your pic and very non ghetto women. That's why I was asking. It's not the ghetto white girls it's the prom queen types.
SarcasticBlonde Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 If that's your pic it is very pretty. But no, I have seen guys with girls that look like your pic and very non ghetto women. That's why I was asking. It's not the ghetto white girls it's the prom queen types. Thanks. I don't know where you are but I haven't seen that
Billy_Boy Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Thanks. I don't know where you are but I haven't seen that You know how it goes, you see it 1 or 2 times and assume its the staple. People need to take some statistics classes.
Author singlelife Posted January 22, 2011 Author Posted January 22, 2011 Thanks. I don't know where you are but I haven't seen that I travel and have seen it in most states. Now of course in places like the deep south there are just sprinkles of it because of the culture. But generally I have seen this everywhere.
hydorclops Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Singlelife, Most girls, not just the white ones want a tough guy or a bad boy who exudes that raw confidence when they are younger and immature. Genetically wired to want a guy who is going to fight for whats his and make moves. Usually mid to late 20s they start to get serious and want to refine thier selection of a mate, typically a guy who exudes the same confidence but is also polished and going somewhere in life. Its really no different for boys, we are all programmed to want to sleep with girls, especially "sluts" all the way up to our 30s roughly... at which point we start thinking about bigger things in life, like starting a family or getting somewhere in life. With proper emotional growth and maturity we refine away from wanting thugs and sluts to wanting the things that those types offer, with more stability. Women want a guy who is confident and strong, but also is going to take care of them emotionally and love them and be a good person. men want a woman who is sexy, alluring, and loves sex, but who will also be respectable to their peers and family, who they can devote their time and energy to. All things come round eventually. Oh also, its not a racial thing. Dont like to Punjabipower, hes a troll. Most of your post is good, but sometimes it really is a race thing. Some white girls like black men because they're racist. Ask a large number of black men about this. Many resent the jungle fever fantasies. Also, of course, there are plenty of fine men and women of all races in interracial relationships.
Author singlelife Posted January 22, 2011 Author Posted January 22, 2011 Most of your post is good, but sometimes it really is a race thing. Some white girls like black men because they're racist. Ask a large number of black men about this. Many resent the jungle fever fantasies. Also, of course, there are plenty of fine men and women of all races in interracial relationships. So from the people you know it's a sex fantasy thing? Like is all they see is a black d***?
Billy_Boy Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Most of your post is good, but sometimes it really is a race thing. Some white girls like black men because they're racist. Ask a large number of black men about this. Many resent the jungle fever fantasies. Also, of course, there are plenty of fine men and women of all races in interracial relationships. By and large its not a racial thing. Although I do concede it does happen, some women are racist morons, like some men and buy into racial stereotypes. AKA Black men have huge cocks. (A myth) That they make better lovers (a myth) That asian girls are submissive (a myth) so on and so forth. by the by, I am in an interracial relationship, I am white, (irish/italian) and my girlfriend is black, (Haitian). http://www.loveshack.org/forums/picture.php?albumid=596&pictureid=3168 The number of relationships based on such sad twists of lies are often very nominal I would say maybe less then 15% IR's a more common now, but are still not quite common overall.
hydorclops Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 So from the people you know it's a sex fantasy thing? Like is all they see is a black d***? No. It's not a pornified sex fantasy. That's for racist white men. It's liking someone because of racist ideas. It's just that simple.
Billy_Boy Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 No. It's not a pornified sex fantasy. That's for racist white men. It's liking someone because of racist ideas. It's just that simple. Its true, a lot of it is very unhealthy. When I see anyone who says they prefer someone of a different race I am instantly like "uh oh, something going on there". I personally am one of those rare types that doesnt care about race at all, I can be happy with anyone, I find women of all ethnicities to be beautiful in different ways, and if I found men attractive I would probably be bisexual. For those few who enter into IR's for unhealthy reasons, I dunno... many times the **** they say blows me away. I am left stunned at how ignorant and stupid someone can be. I've seen it on this forum as well. Here are some examples I have heard in my life. I date asian women because they arent bossy. I date black guys because they have huge dongers. I date Latinas because they are always wet... or you get the ones that say things like I only date black guys because white guys are wimps! I only date Asian girls, because white girls are sluts! I only date latino guys because they know how to love their women! Those types of people I notice tend to also be insanely immature, or insecure about themselves and need some sort of a hook or something to anchor onto to feel like they have some upper hand in some huge nefarious plot. Its pathetic. But also rare, thank god.
Duckduckgoose Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 By and large its not a racial thing. Although I do concede it does happen, some women are racist morons, like some men and buy into racial stereotypes. AKA Black men have huge cocks. (A myth) That they make better lovers (a myth) That asian girls are submissive (a myth) so on and so forth. by the by, I am in an interracial relationship, I am white, (irish/italian) and my girlfriend is black, (Haitian). http://www.loveshack.org/forums/picture.php?albumid=596&pictureid=3168 The number of relationships based on such sad twists of lies are often very nominal I would say maybe less then 15% IR's a more common now, but are still not quite common overall. Your GF is really cute! No, I am not a lesbian. I was just going to post on here that sometimes I find thug-type men attractive... something about being tough on the outside but being a teddy bear with the ladies. My brother has a friend like that and I always hugged him like he was a big teddy bear, but he was meaner than hell on the streets (he's still a big softie to me though haha). I would not pursue a thug though... and wouldn't have when I was in my teens either. Sometimes the "thugs" are just posers acting out to mask their insecurities by imitating that type of popular culture... I told my stbxH several months ago that if I wasn't with him (he's white as am I) that I might have married a black guy. I have been attracted to several of them, as well as some white guys. I dunno... I guess I will just have to see what the future holds once this divorce is final.
hydorclops Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Its true, a lot of it is very unhealthy. When I see anyone who says they prefer someone of a different race I am instantly like "uh oh, something going on there". I personally am one of those rare types that doesnt care about race at all, I can be happy with anyone, I find women of all ethnicities to be beautiful in different ways, and if I found men attractive I would probably be bisexual. For those few who enter into IR's for unhealthy reasons, I dunno... many times the **** they say blows me away. I am left stunned at how ignorant and stupid someone can be. I've seen it on this forum as well. Here are some examples I have heard in my life. I date asian women because they arent bossy. I date black guys because they have huge dongers. I date Latinas because they are always wet... or you get the ones that say things like I only date black guys because white guys are wimps! I only date Asian girls, because white girls are sluts! I only date latino guys because they know how to love their women! Those types of people I notice tend to also be insanely immature, or insecure about themselves and need some sort of a hook or something to anchor onto to feel like they have some upper hand in some huge nefarious plot. Its pathetic. But also rare, thank god. It's not about race, but the one I see the most here on this forum is: American women are...(something bad)
SteveC80 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 allot of white women love anything thats trendy and with rap the black thug is trendy now add in the racial angle,the penis size myth plus lets be honest black men are thought of as the pinnacle of masculinity which is attractive to all women
sagetalk Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 I ses lots of hot white girls chasing thugs everywhere. I mean the girls are like barbie doll hot. The thugs have the hat on backward and baggie pants. What is the attraction here? You worded your question well. Too many guys take the attitude of, "Why are so many hot blond girls dating black guys?" It isn't the color of the skin those girls like, it's their thug mentality. Thug mentalities are not exclusive to any color, they merely stand out more in the black community because of stereo types. There are black guys that don't act like thugs, and they can't get those girls either. My advice to you is to just not care and find girls that like guys like you. Don't waste your time on princesses that want to be "bad". Let them have those losers, they'll learn eventually. Tell them they are making a mistake and can do better if you like, but don't focus on it. There are plenty of attractive girls (blond included) who think those guys are a joke. I agree that it is terrible for our society to have attractive women dating/marrying thugs, and hopefully these girls will wise up and see just how vast their options are. But don't hold your breath on that one.
TigerCub Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Most of your post is good, but sometimes it really is a race thing. Some white girls like black men because they're racist. Maybe that's true for some, but some people (myself included) are actually attracted to black men - with no racist mentality. However the black men I'm attracted to are those that have their sh** together. But...I'm not white - maybe that screws up the stats Ask a large number of black men about this. Many resent the jungle fever fantasies. Ya know, that could be true, but where I live, it doesn't appear to be the case - where ever I look, I see a fat white girl pushing a stroller with a 1/2 black kid - so I'm guessing the majority don't mind the "jungle fever fantasy". aaawwww. mixed kids are the cutest!!! Also, of course, there are plenty of fine men and women of all races in interracial relationships. True, I am in a happy interracial R with a white guy, and he's awesome and perfect for me oh and btw - that black guy big dick thing is indeed a MYTH, a disappointing myth haha
hydorclops Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Maybe that's true for some, but some people (myself included) are actually attracted to black men - with no racist mentality. I'm attracted to black women, Asian women, white women, even American women. One last qualification: Even if a white woman prefers black men, it only means that she might be racist. We still have to take people one at a time.
TigerCub Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 I'm attracted to black women, Asian women, white women, even American women. One last qualification: Even if a white woman prefers black men, it only means that she might be racist. We still have to take people one at a time. she might be racist against blacks??! Its true that we have to take people one @ a time. but that one doesn't make much sense to me. So you said you'd date black women - does that mean that YOU might be racist as well?
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