irc333 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 ..... When a woman flirts with you, and asks you to come join her at her place to watch a scary movie, and sit on her couch, (that's capable of holding more than one person) and she sits in her La Z Boy on the opposite side of the room. And you're irritated for 2 hours the entire time.
mo mo Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 did that happen to you? You should have grown some balls and sat on her lap
somedude81 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 The entire two hour time, did you ask her why she's over there or tell her to join you?
Author irc333 Posted January 21, 2011 Author Posted January 21, 2011 The entire two hour time, did you ask her why she's over there or tell her to join you? I did and that's where she said she didn't want to give me any wrong ideas...and thought of me as a friend. This was years ago though
mo mo Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I did and that's where she said she didn't want to give me any wrong ideas...and thought of me as a friend. This was years ago though You should have grown some balls and sat on her lap
edgeofdarkness Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I did and that's where she said she didn't want to give me any wrong ideas...and thought of me as a friend. This was years ago though years ago? And r u not over it yet? Jeeezus....
somedude81 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I did and that's where she said she didn't want to give me any wrong ideas...and thought of me as a friend. This was years ago though And that's when you knew you were friendzoned. Also instead of being miserable sitting on the couch by yourself, after she told you, she didn't want to give you a wrong idea, you should have left. Then again, this was years ago, why make this thread now?
Author irc333 Posted January 21, 2011 Author Posted January 21, 2011 years ago? And r u not over it yet? Jeeezus.... Actually, this thread is for those to ADD to the "You know if you've been FZ'ed IF..." Insert event here.
GivenUp0083 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 And that's when you knew you were friendzoned. Also instead of being miserable sitting on the couch by yourself, after she told you, she didn't want to give you a wrong idea, you should have left. Then again, this was years ago, why make this thread now? It still bothers him...probably thinks of her as "the one that got away"
carhill Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Sits next to you, rubs up against you, looks in your eyes and says: 'you're like the girlfriend I always wanted to have' 'I can tell you things I've never told anyone' 'I wish I could be like this with my boyfriend/husband' 'I never want to ruin this wonderful friendship' The ones who are married are generally a bit more aggressive physically and verbally. Evidently, the 'safer' they feel, the more 'friendly' they are. In all cases, IME, they escalate until getting a 'male' response, then off goes the switch. 'Ooh, I guess we got a bit too close there' LOL. I can smell it coming now.
edgeofdarkness Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Actually, this thread is for those to ADD to the "You know if you've been FZ'ed IF..." Insert event here. oh right. nah. never bin friendzoned. never let that happen, it sux.
Nexus One Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 (edited) I did and that's where she said she didn't want to give me any wrong ideas...and thought of me as a friend. This would require quite some cojones(cahones), but it does get the message across unambiguously: "I don't want to be your friend, I want to be your lover. Anything less than that would be torture for me while I am around you. It's up to you." Leave forever if she says she still wants to be friends. That's some hardcore attitude right there. Edited January 21, 2011 by Nexus One
somedude81 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Actually, this thread is for those to ADD to the "You know if you've been FZ'ed IF..." Insert event here. Oh...you probably should have mentioned that in the OP... You know you've been friendzoned if...she brings along a guy friend on your date
mo mo Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 This would require quite some cojones(cahones), but it does get the message across unambiguously: "I don't want to be your friend, I want to be your lover. Anything less than that would be torture for me while I am around you. It's up to you." Leave forever if she says she still wants to be friends. That's some hardcore attitude right there. Or he could have just sat on her lap. Guys I'm not kidding around here. I was in a similar scenario. A female friend of mine invited me to her place to watch a movie, she sat on the opposite end of the couch. We were just friends, there was never any talk of us dating. I made some moves, by the time the movie was over we were all over each other. I spent the night at her place
mo mo Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Oh...you probably should have mentioned that in the OP... You know you've been friendzoned if...she brings along a guy friend on your date Haha, or what if she takes you out and meets up with her boyfriend once you guys get to where you are going? She didn't tell you beforehand the BF would be there.. that's happened to 2 guys I know. TERRIBLE
phineas Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 She cuddles on the couch with you during a movie & kisses you on the lips. wait. what?
runner Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 She cuddles on the couch with you during a movie & kisses you on the lips. wait. what? the OP said ADD, not A.D.D.
paddington bear Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 the friendzone sucks. Just don't even get in it. Urgh. And I say this as a three time friendzoned female. However, light at the end of the tunnel: the three guys who friendzoned me: 1) commitment-phobic, broke the heart of the next girl he dated due to this very thing. Lucky escape for me. 2) crazy ex-wife with mental disorder. Was not mentally able to escape her. Lucky escape for me, as he had a child with her 3) sweet and lovely guy, but due to being friends I have realised sexual issues, lack of confidence, basically, a messed up guy Sometimes what you think you want is not good for you
strength-abounds Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 You know you're F'Zoned when the woman tries to set you up with her co-worker while you're supposed to be on a "date".
Cracker Jack Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 "Any woman would be lucky to have someone as amazing as you." The end.
Author irc333 Posted January 22, 2011 Author Posted January 22, 2011 And that pretty much ends the thread. I remember when I was younger, I fell for that line, too...thinking, "Aw, that was an awesome thing to say." It made me think that, well, if it wasn't her, it would be the next one around the corner, and soon enough the next one around the corner would say the same thing. "Any woman would be lucky to have someone as amazing as you." The end.
dispatch3d Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Meh, all of these girls I'd start keeping at arms length. They have to get over their insecurities on their own, not use me as a feeding device hahaha. How the hell can you remember something a girl did to you 2 years ago? Seriously I come up with a blank. And there's no way every girl I've met has been nice to me.
Questionis Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Or he could have just sat on her lap. Guys I'm not kidding around here. I was in a similar scenario. A female friend of mine invited me to her place to watch a movie, she sat on the opposite end of the couch. We were just friends, there was never any talk of us dating. I made some moves, by the time the movie was over we were all over each other. I spent the night at her place Yeah, I guess the best thing to do , if you don't want this to happen is never invite a guy over ever, unless he is your boyfriend or potential boyfriend... Siiggghhhh
Questionis Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 This would require quite some cojones(cahones), but it does get the message across unambiguously: "I don't want to be your friend, I want to be your lover. Anything less than that would be torture for me while I am around you. It's up to you." Leave forever if she says she still wants to be friends. That's some hardcore attitude right there. Oh I see. So the best thing to do is just to cut guys off if you don't want to have sex with them?
somedude81 Posted January 23, 2011 Posted January 23, 2011 Yeah, I guess the best thing to do , if you don't want this to happen is never invite a guy over ever, unless he is your boyfriend or potential boyfriend... Siiggghhhh Yup, if you have no intention of hooking up with him; do not spend any time alone with him at his place or yours.
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