fiat500 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 My life hurts. when it rains, it really brings buckets of sh*t. I'm in dire need of some kind of reason to keep getting out of bed in the morning. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t261786/ I emailed this friend and left two voice mails with weeks in between and I'm still being ignored. I want to crawl under a rock and die.
Leandro Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 She's just tired of trying to help you. Don't take it so hard fiat. She's ignoring you because she doesn't want to deal with it anymore. If I was you, I would stop contacting her. If she was to contact you, I wouldn't reply back and ignore her just like she did. But that's just me.
Author fiat500 Posted January 21, 2011 Author Posted January 21, 2011 it's awesome because all the times she called me to complain about her husband, i always listened. even if it was the same problem. Also, i never talked about my breakup as much as she makes it. I'd call to talk about other things and she asked how i was doing and I'd give her a one worded response. She's full of self righteous bullsh*t.
Author fiat500 Posted January 21, 2011 Author Posted January 21, 2011 She never offered the advice she's claiming to offer!!! All she's said consisted of "get over it." She doesn't offer advice. My grandmother has Alzheimers and i called this friend earlier last year to talk about it and she said "i really don't know what to say." and then later she attacked me for being sad over it and then claimed i never wanted to listen to her "counseling." you know what. f**k it. f**k this friend.
Leandro Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 lol, yes she is . Not don't go under a rock and die. I don't even know if that's possible.
swfc_77 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 they always say "you know who your friends are, when things get tough" try not to fall out with anyone, you need different people around you at the moment. some people are good at talking about their feeleing and offering support, some are not, and im a man. just try and determine which friends feel comfortable talking about it and friends that dont. some of my close friends i dont talk to my **** about, because they just wont understand, regardless of when/if they come to me for advice.
dng Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 it's awesome because all the times she called me to complain about her husband, i always listened. even if it was the same problem. Also, i never talked about my breakup as much as she makes it. I'd call to talk about other things and she asked how i was doing and I'd give her a one worded response. She's full of self righteous bullsh*t. Bah, dont read too much into it. She's not tooled for listening, and you are, and that's all. Leave her be and remember she cannot help you with your current problem. Maybe she's good for other things in your life, but not this. This current thing has an effect on her that she cannot deal with, her husband is clearly interfering - that may even be the real cause for this. People are not simple.
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