ubetcha Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Long story short. Ex dumped me for another woman 4 months ago. He has been texting me since we broke up on an average of about once a week for the past 4 months. The texts used to be small things like "hope your well" and things like that. Anyway, for about 2 months now, I have ignored ALL his attempts at communication. (Wow is that ever hard) He recently sent me a text that said "I miss you" with a pic attached that he had taken of me on his cell phone a year ago. (Surprised he still has it considering he left me for another woman) Anyway, he just sent me one a couple hours ago that said "Will I ever get to see you again?" Again, I have not responded to a single text in 2 months and he continues to write increasingly emotional messages to me. Is he really trying this hard to play games with me? Do you think he regrets leaving and is now looking for a way back in? I have not responded to the latest text but, its getting harder and harder to ignore his contact.
0hpenelope Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 (edited) You ready to talk to him yet? I ask this because you said it's getting harder and harder to ignore his attempts at getting in touch with you, so... You think you'll be okay with breaking it for a short while one of these days to get him to leave you alone? Some people aren't smart enough to take a hint, unfortunately. Edited January 21, 2011 by 0hpenelope added more explanation
gator12 Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 Idk if you want him back or not but I'm gonna say this in the case that you do. If you do, then don't reply until he is literally begging to be back with you which he will if he wants to be back. Right now he's testing you to see if you'll still bite, the fact that you're not replying to him is driving him insane. He's like wtf I thought she loved me. Feel free to read the guides in my signature if you need reaffirmation of your NC. Caliguy really does wonders. Now if you don't want him back then the answer is simple. Don't text him, period.
xpaperxcutx Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 Any chance you can change your number or block him? Answering him or giving him any type of response is an affirmation that you haven't forgotten about him. If he likes to play mind games, let him play by himself. For him to run off to another woman is automatic " she-devil" on your part, which by the way, is my favorite revenge movie of all time. Believe in karma and know, exes come back when you live better without them.
0hpenelope Posted January 24, 2011 Posted January 24, 2011 Believe in karma and know, exes come back when you live better without them. Penny likes this! I missed reading your posts, xpaperxcutx.
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