quietGuy13 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I'm quiet, don't usually talk and dont make eyecontact. Sometimes i do, usually with older women or middle age or 40's or whatever who are the ones who make contact with me and i return the contact back then we smile and say hi.. and even talk at least alittle. But talkative girls my age, don't even make eyecontact with me, even if I try and they do'nt even initiate HI or any conversation even though they are talkative with other talkative people. They turn like shy . it's just interesting. why do they turn shy and don't talk ? This happens alot..talkative people that talk to anyone, dn't talk to me and become shy around me EVEN if i'm ready to make eyecontact OR when i don't make eyecontact but still.. you get the point.
creighton0123 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Psychologically, women communicate in ways different then men. Women are more likely to face the person they're talking to and look directly into their eyes, whereas men face parallel to or away from and don't engage in all too much eye contact. Without the eye contact and being naturally quiet, you give off two vibes: 1. You're uncomfortable to talk to 2. You're not a good listener A third option is that you may be an extremely beautiful guy and your beauty makes them shy and giggly. Just a thought. Make eye contact. It's more civilized.
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