AbsoluteSucker Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Just ask for a damn address, keep it to that, send them, then get on with your life. Jesus, stop playing dumbass games. Time to be an adult. WTRanger, what the h*ll is your problem. If you think a post is a waste of your precious time, don't bother to f*cking post. Obviously, if you don't have anything constructive to offer, don't say thing. This is no place to put people down. I have handled just about every other aspect of the breakup incorrectly that I came on here for a little advise a**hole. You have 1,300 post under your belt, if you're not going to be supportive or offer some quality advise, maybe time to step back and get some perspective. This isn't the place for you rants.
Ajax Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I don't think starting an entirely new thread to call out WTRanger is much better.
Author AbsoluteSucker Posted January 21, 2011 Author Posted January 21, 2011 Yeah well, people do dumb things when they've told to "get on with their life" and "be an adult" during a difficult time and unsure what to do during the lamest of circumstances. Guess I'll find advise and support somewhere else.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 And publicly humiliating him is much better?
WTRanger Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 (edited) Are we breaking up? Because this is posted in the break up forum. Am I the only one laughing at someone who claims LS isn't place for rants, yet dedicates a thread to calling me out? And such foul language! Who is ranting here? A rant is a speech or text that does not present a well-researched and calm argument; rather, it is typically an attack on an idea, a person or an institution. Very often rants lack proven claims. Such attacks are usually personal attacks. Of course the adult thing to do would be ignore me, chalk me up to being another crackpot poster. I merely advised you that shredding mail, even an ex's mail, is not only stupid but illegal. Fact. I advised you to stop playing foolish games, get your ex's new address, and send the mail to her. Fact. Then, get on with your life and the healing process. I think telling you that if you do shred that mail you can end up in jail is pretty constructive. You know, stop you from doing something really, really, stupid. PS. It is advice you are seeking. If you were seeking advise, you would be the one giving said advice. Such as; I advise you to listen to my advice. Or, another poster advised you that my advice is nothing but tomfoolery. If you are going to insult me, at least use the language in the way that the King of England intended it to be used. PPS. I also think that WTRanger guy is an ass. Edited January 21, 2011 by WTRanger
Hhhh Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 you guys are being childish. Let it go or meet up somewhere and go 3 rounds lol... let us know AbsoluteSucker, i have read your other thread, it did look like you were looking for a reason to break NC. WTRanger you were kind of a jerk about but no need to get bitter and argue about. This is a forum of support
hopesndreams Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 Yeah well, people do dumb things when they've told to "get on with their life" and "be an adult" during a difficult time and unsure what to do during the lamest of circumstances. Guess I'll find advise and support somewhere else. He was right though, wasn't he? I like the way he thinks. Doesn't sugarcoat.
hopesndreams Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 you guys are being childish. Let it go or meet up somewhere and go 3 rounds lol... let us know AbsoluteSucker, i have read your other thread, it did look like you were looking for a reason to break NC. WTRanger you were kind of a jerk about but no need to get bitter and argue about. This is a forum of support Bitter. I love how this word gets thrown around by those who have never experienced great pain. It's all just so easy, let's call it bitterness, yippppeeeee....such a hurtful word and whatever is said from the "bitter" person is then meaningless.
depplover_1980 Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 I have found that on this forum some sensitive people don't like the harsh truth sometimes and that it can be too nicey and supportive. Sometimes you have to be told what you don't want to hear if it's relevant and that is actually the kindest way!
Trovador Posted January 22, 2011 Posted January 22, 2011 This goes two ways: if you don´t like harsh answers among sugar coated advices and platitudes (as well as pretty good suggestions), then don't create threads at all, nobody will hurt you, but nobody will help you either... BTW, I remember that thread and I agreed with Ranger's post, anyway, if you don't like what someone tells you, just ignore him, no need to burst a vein or stop the old ticker because of that...
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