40 Fonzarelli Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 Sometimes I date a girl and we have fun and the sex is good, but it lacks that emotional bond. If she no longer wanted to date, I wouldn't feel that bad. So how is it done?
carhill Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 By focusing on something other than getting an orgasm. Being open to caring about someone other than oneself and showing that care. The bond forms when *both* people feel and respond positively to each other's care. Beware of those who mask ego with feigned care. This is equivalent to whispering words of endearment to get that selfish orgasm. Oh, and time. Time proves what one feels is real and true and balanced. Get yourself a male friend you'd take a bullet for, and he you, and you'll learn a lot about emotional connections. No orgasms required.
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