Author Wandaland Posted January 21, 2011 Author Posted January 21, 2011 Thank you Star727. I don't know what came over him and why he would betray me like this. He put more love into our relationship just as much as I did, and then he goes and destroys it? It just doesn't make sense. I wanted the honest, faithful, trustworthy man back, that's who I want back. If he's really remorseful for what did and is willing to work this out, then maybe I can trust him a little bit and go to counsellings. I hear it makes the marriage much stronger than before if we achieve and overcome this. But he doesn't want me anymore. So whatever, I'm still hurting and heart-broken, but I have to move on with my life. I'm 25, and I still have many years ahead of me. I'm not gonna let that go to waste. Damn him! Now I feel sorry for the next guy I date in the future because it's gonna be hard for me to trust anyone now.
PortuguesePrincess80 Posted January 21, 2011 Posted January 21, 2011 I told my family. I spoke to his mom about it too. I'm close to his mother and she was shocked about this too. I heard his family members kept calling him and asking him what his deal was. He said that he shouldn't have cheated on me, but he has grown tired of me and was annoyed with every little thing I do. He was deciding whether he wanted to stay with me or be a single guy again (probably so that he can screw every girl he sees). But obviously he's choosing to be single and the divorce papers are just around the corner. Our families are disappointed in him, but he said that it's not his fault that he fell out of love with me. I just don't know who he is anymore. I thought I understood him more than anyone else, but I guess I was wrong. I remember the night he propose, our wedding day, and our honeymoon, and he would always tell me how much he love me and that he'd rather be alone if he can't have me. He was so genuine and I could tell that it came from his heart. I think he just gave up on me, he gave up on our marriage and didn't want to deal with the responsibilities. Wow..thats a tough one to swallow. I suppose hes got a whole lot of growing up to do at this point! Just be glad you dont have kids with this guy. It will take some time but I would say get on with your life. Nothing can ever compare to the pain you are feeling right now..except for a death of a loved one. Don't forget what your feeling now ESPECIALLY when he calls you in a few weeks...months or years from now telling you how much he screwed up! You now know trust isnt so blind! Your so young and have your whole life ahead of you. Be proud of that. Be proud that you uncovered his cheating ways. He thought he had you all figured out huh? SHow him NOW what your made of..and how life can be so grand and rewarding without him! Please don't cry..not infront of him! Be strong..thats all the advise I could give you!
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