Stillnlove08 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 My husband and I have been married for 2 years now and together for almost 5. This past month has been a living hell. He had a friend that he refused to sever ties with and we will be seeking marriage counseling tomorrow. As of last night we decided that because we have kids together that instead of one of us leaving it would be better to both stay in the house to see if that love he had for me can be re-kindled. I have no doubts of my love for him and that I want to remain married and not for the kids but because I love him for him. Do any of you guys have any ideas on what I should do or expect out of this? There is a lot to how we got this way but the bottom line is he has no certain feelings anymore. He doubts everything he used to feel and has a lot of anger towards his mother for keeping him from his father when he was a child. I really need some help here?!?!?
PegNosePete Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 What is the nature of the "friend" he refuses to sever ties with? Why do you want him to sever ties?
hopesndreams Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 stay in the house to see if that love he had for me can be re-kindled. Love will not be re-kindled if he doesn't give up his friend. He doubts everything he used to feel and has a lot of anger towards his mother for keeping him from his father when he was a child. This plays on your sympathies and he is using it as an excuse for what he has done or is about to do.
You Go Girl Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Exactly what kind of "friend" are we talking about, and why do you object to this friendship?
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