m2s Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 so get this, he came over tonight, and apparently its my fault he left. The reasons why: 1) I put on weight with my pregnancy 2) I didnt vaccum the house enough (apparently he always had to do it 3) i didnt put on make up or do my hair during the week 4) I always got in comfy clothes at the end of the day from work 5) we didnt go out enough with a baby/2 year old So why couldnt he tell me this stuff before he left so I could try to fix them? I dont think these are reasons enough to leave your family or maybe im wrong?
Gettingtired Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Those reasons are absolutely shocking to leave someone over. 1) as do all women, what does he expect? 2) well you are pregnant and [possibly going of what you typed] looking after a 2 year old all day. 3) No comment. But I bet you dont need to wear make-up anyway. 4) Who doesn't do that?!?! One of the first things I do after getting in as well. 5) Go out and do what. He has a young family, there's plenty of things that you can go and do together. Sorry, but this guy seems like a complete knob and I think you're better off being shot of him.
Kansas Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Alright, well I understand that we still need to respect the person we are with and take care of ourselves. Fine. BUT when you're in a relationship, pregnant and then chasing after a 2 year old, some exceptions have to be made. You have to cut someone some slack, be aware of the circumstances and show some compassion (clearly he is devoid of this). How's he looking these days? How would he be looking if he spent an afternoon cleaning up poop, wiping up drool and scraping food off a 2 year old. He sounds incredibly immature and frankly does not sound like he's ready to handle life, let along a healthy relationship and a child.
FreeToBe Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 What a douchebag. You know what? Those sound like 'I need some reasons to break up with her reasons,' but not the REAL reasons. Dig deeper... There's more to this.
depplover_1980 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 You should be glad you are now free of this awful man and when he wants to come back make him crawl. I do want to add though that a woman should always physically maintain herself sometimes with nice clothes and make up, it is too easy to let this side go, but no grounds for this at all.
Hhhh Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 You shouldn't even need to fix those problems LOL. Guys a douchebag. marry me ill take of you LOLL.
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