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Got dumped the day after Christmas fed a load of bs it's me not you oldest line in the book.Thing is now he's over it it's been just over 3 weeks was I worth so little?I think knowing he cared at all about me would help me move on I don't really miss him.But I really feel he used me for 6months then dumped me when it was inconvenient.Urgh how do you get over it?he wants me to not talk to him!

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The best thing ever (even though it sounds hard) is DO NOT TALK TO HIM

 

You will read about no contact (NC) a lot in here and it really is for the best, The less you hear about him or from the the faster you will heal, like pulling a band aid off fast instead of slowly.

 

Reading your red flags in another post, he sounds like a pretty horrible piece of work, when you do get the urge to contact him, or reply to contact he initiates DO NOT DO IT It never ever ends well.

 

He sounds like a complete user and a selfish bastard if not even slightly narcissistic but all around you deserve better treatment then that.

 

Trying to accepting that someone you love, doesn't love you in return, is hard and painful and complicated as all of us who post here know, but it does get easier once you let go and accept the reality how it stands. I hope you heal fast xx

Edited by angelboots
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Hey there I can understand how you feel. My nasty ex hasn't contacted me even once since we brokeup, 6 months ago.

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