Shyphish Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 I'm a 22 year old dating an older women. I really like her a lot she's cool to hang out with. But things are going good haven't done anything yet really. She invited me over this weekend to stay over. But the thing is I'm a virgin. And I really don't know how to tell her. I want to take it slow cause I like her a lot but what if she freaks or something. Can you guys help me out por favor thanks
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 I wonder how long you've dodged. you certainly don't have a virgin's intuition... you seem to know exactly what's on the menu during the sleep over, after all. if this is all about mental insecurity hindering your ability to get laid, then by all means, bring a bottle of grey goose & go with the flow (& don't mention the virgin thing). do you two share some highly romanticized, fictional, novel based emo bond? seeking a LTR?? fine... tell her. it likely won't matter (especially after you've goosed her). if your hiding something medical or a particular something that can hurt her physically, either continue to run, like you've been, or let her know any risks she'd be taking (that you're aware of) beforehand... & certainly before you goose her. if you're scared, goose up & have fun. if you're sick, you better fear the L word -- liability - & behaive accordingly.
Author Shyphish Posted January 20, 2011 Author Posted January 20, 2011 She's 28 we haven't done much just a lot making out. It's only a couple of weeks we've been dating. Like she cool to hang out with and love when she's there.
Author Shyphish Posted January 20, 2011 Author Posted January 20, 2011 What I look it not on top on my list but they I work it I guess lol. How conflictguy say goose her up. But I don't want to do it that way for some reason. I kinda what to make it special it's my first. And I kinda what to make special I know it sounds gay but I really want to make it like that.
ConflictedGuy27 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 What I look it not on top on my list but they I work it I guess lol. How conflictguy say goose her up. But I don't want to do it that way for some reason. I kinda what to make it special it's my first. And I kinda what to make special I know it sounds gay but I really want to make it like that. I'm not advocating you get totally smashed; but by all means, throw a few back (both of you) & swish those new booty inhibition(s)/virgin insecurities away. goose is smooth my friend. channel billy d. williams, bust out the cranberry juice + ice & be cool, baby.
soconfused12345 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 My boyfriend acted like he had slept with other people and bam! two months into our official relationship he told me that I was the only girl he had ever been with. Because he waited to tell me, I felt special and impressed. I bet if you're not embarrassed about it, she won't care. I didn't care. I can't imagine many women judging you for that.
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