sunshine1986 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Hiya, I'm going mad inside and was just hoping for some advice, though it's prob too late now! Heard it all before, but I honestly believe I've broken up with my one and only!! We were together for two years and one night I sent a drunken text to him being a bit pissy about his lack of drive in life etc... Following this he started ignoring me and I was pissed of and deleted him off fbook u know etc. He then continued to ignore me, which pissed me off even more because we had been together for two years and this is plain stupid!! When he did talk he said I had dumped him and it's my fault! I didn't want to dump him but he was hearing none of this. I tried to ask him back, I begged and pleaded but he just said he needed time and ignored me. This was four months ago. He refuses to see me or talk to me. He's given me all my stuff back and we have said alot of mean things to each other. Admittedly me more to him but I don't like being ignored by the guy I love!! I have asked him if he doesnt love me, he ignores me. Yet when I ask him if he has wants to try again he says no. How can someone just switch off?? My head is still a mess. I've told him to leave me alone to live my life, bit all I want is for him to fight for us. I should know by now his lack of fighting is an obvious sign he doesn't want an 'us' anymore but I just can't believe it. Can someone slap some sense into me?!?
eeazee Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Hi My Dear, One thing I have realized in life that no one should ever force a relationship. If he's done, just let him be. Go full NC, and if he loves you, he will definitely come back to you.
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