yellowhibiscus Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 So this guy that I have known for a long time (we went to high school together) but never really hung out with contacts me on facebook asking to get together to catch up and have a drink. I'm 28 years old and not married and single, so I said what the heck, I'll go. We meet up, have great conversation for about 3 hours and he explains that he has always had a crush on me. I had never really thought of him as an option but after that night, find him more on my mind. He texts me immediately after ,saying he had a great time. We start talking more via text and decide we really have so much in common and like each other. He told me he wants to see me again and wants to take things slow. I agree. So...we get together the next week, he comes over to watch a movie, we kissed a little and thats it.He didn't ask to do anything else at all... He also invited me to his band practice that night and I went. Another good day....since then he texts me just about every day to see how I am doing...also brings up the fact that he loves my body and thinks I am sexy ALOT. He has been bringing up sex quite a bit and also says things like he can't stop thinking about me. I reiterated that I wanted to take it slow but I felt the same way about him. I really, really do like him and we get along great and I don't want to just have sex with him and have him disappear. I cannot tell what his intentions are!! I AM NOT going to have sex with him the next time we get together, maybe do other stuff but I can sense that he is getting eager for it... what do you think????
edgeofdarkness Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 what is there to say, this relationship is just progressing, sure its slow, but its what u both want so whats the problem.? I really dont see it myself.... Its clear u both want this to work, u both want sex but u don't want to hurry n e thing. I dont get what yr probelm is, relly.
richbad08 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 So first off its normal for a guy to want sex. Buuuut if he really cared about you he wouldn't pressure you or keep asking for that matter. If I were you I would keep hanging out with him like normal but keep in mind of his actions and how hard he is trying to get into your pants. A true man wouldn't leave or get mad if you haven't had sex with him right away. Now eventually you might have sex. But I would see how hard he is pushing it. Me personally would only have sex with someone if either it was a one nighter or i really cared about them that I would have them as my girlfriend for awhile and sex would just come around naturally.
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