richbad08 Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 So first off I think personally if you are in a relationship sex isn't a big deal because your with someone. If your single then you're not committed to anyone so who ever you have sex with is your business. If you're a girl and you think like a guy like "sex isn't a big deal" or "I can have sex with a friend and see them the next day and act like friends" I think you're a slut. Girls should have respect for themselves and not think like that. I hate saying its double standards but its true guys can think like that because there the ones who have to try to get sex from girls and girls don't have to try ( in general ) unless you're really ugly or something but realistically if you're a girl and say that what do you people think? If you are having sex with friends you never know what disease you can catch or someone is going to have feelings for that person. Soo what do you people personally think? Isn't a big deal or it is? Girls thinking like that sluts or no?
creighton0123 Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Double standards are double standards for a reason. If you equate promiscuity with lacking respect for oneself, you need to open your eyes a little more. Some people can equate sex with a handshake. Some people believe sex to be extremely intimate and special. There is no uniform answer, but it is wrong to place a different standard on woman than you do on men. I'd also point out that there are a number of guys who really don't have to try to get a girl to have sex with them if they want to have sex. As for your last statement, it's always important for everyone to practice safer sex and use condoms. Are girls who think like that sluts? The answer is simple. It is either "No" or "No more than guys who think like that."
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