sasmcpot Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 My girlfriend of a year (And the best year of my life), kissed a friend of hers whilst she was drunk in a club. Apparently, a drunk man behind her told her to kiss her friend on the lips, and she did. And from what I am told, it was no mouth movement or tongue, but lasted a while. She phoned me in the morning to tell me, but I had a friend nearby who saw her do it, and I know he would have informed me. (Hes a friend of us both) So am unsure if she told me to stop him from doing so, or not. We've broken up over this as I am an untrusting man, but was never controlling with her at all. This is due to a previous relationship where I got cheated on, and that time, it was the whole hog! Im unsure of what to do at the moment, and looking for some advice from you all really. I know if I got back with her, I could never feel the same way about her again, as to me, it just feels like doing something like that shows a lack of respect for your partner. But I had the best year of my life with her, and its killing me. Thanks for any advice anyone can give!
Stilicho Posted January 19, 2011 Posted January 19, 2011 man, i was in the same situation after 2 yrs, it hurts like hell, and although being alone will hurt you tremendously, youll be ok in the long run. However, do what you feel is right in your heart, if you love her and she is truly sorry, give it a go, but on your terms, and make sure she knows what they are.
Oscar Wilde Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Hi friend! we all are human beings and prone to make mistakes, if you're in love with her go ahead and bring her a second chance. This girl shown a lack of respect for herself but I think she can learn from this. For sure is not gonna be easy to trust her, and you have to tell her how you feel. Relationships are difficult and need to be worked. Best regards, Oscar
Hhhh Posted January 20, 2011 Posted January 20, 2011 Go ahead and give her another chance if you think its right, but if you are unsure than maybe you shouldn't because in the long run you are setting yourself up for more heartbreak than you are feeling right now. Do you think this women who kissed another man is going to be your wife one day, or are you just reminiscing the good times and hoping for them back. Love is like a drug, always wanting the HIGH The best advice i can give you is take a small break and casually see each other as friends for a few months and if you're both still interested give it another go, she will respect you if you do this way
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