creed9090 Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 Hope I didn't double post, my computer freaked out. I am just getting back into the dating game and boy have things changed, you need a degree is dateolgy just to figure things out. I met this guy online and we hit it off really well, we have a LOT of things in common and he was like a breath of fresh air, compared to the other men. We met a couple of weeks later at a eatery and stayed there for about 3 hours talking and enjoying each other's company. We pretty much have been either talking on the phone or texting each other every day since we met. We went out on a second date 2 weeks later, we work different work schedules so we miss each other time, and again talked hours before it was time for him to go to work. During the date he held my hand and we had a nice kiss once the date ended. The next time we had planned to go out he didn't make it and sent me a text an hour after the scheduled time saying that he sorry he didn't tell me sooner, but was called into work. I let me him know I understood and also that I'm considerate of people's time and when things change, I let know before hand. I also put it out there that if he's not that into to me, it's fine to let me know now, just in case that's how he was feeling but not sure how to say it. He is he really likes me and that he thinks about me everyday and that he just had poor judgement. Ok, we talked about it, it's in the past we moved on. We go out a over the weekend to see a movie and cuddled during the movie, had a nice kiss in the end, but no real conversation, he walked me to my car and I drove him to his car and that was it. Afterwards we let other know we had made it home and that we enjoyed each others company. After that I haven't heard from him, normally he would text or call to see how I'm doing, but a day went by without any conversion, which is strange since we normally talk every day. I sent him a text to see how he was doing, he said ok and asked how I was, that was the end of the conversation. Normally he would tell me what he doing or general conversation. He now seems standoffish and distant, he kinda gave me that feeling after the second date. I really don't plan on contacting him further if he doesn't contact me, because generally if a man is interested in you after 3 dates, the conversation just doesn't drop off the face of the earth. The only thing I can think of is maybe he's just not that into me and doesn't want to say it, just wants things to just fizzle out and disappear or that perhaps when we got back to our cars, he asked if I was going straight home, I'm like duh, it's like 1 in the morning, where else would I go, but he didn't respond so that was his error. I would have followed him home. Comments, opinions suggestions?
Roobin Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 I think if after the 3 rd date he begins acting stupid, you should leave him straight away! Maybe you connected fine and everything but something missed. This is just me thinking!
Jazzari Posted January 18, 2011 Posted January 18, 2011 The next time we had planned to go out he didn't make it and sent me a text an hour after the scheduled time saying that he sorry he didn't tell me sooner, but was called into work. There's no excuse for letting you sit waiting for an hour. I think you're better off without him.
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